"Love and wisdom are sisters who, especially in men, never meet where one is absent." –William Shakespeare
If you wonder why men don't pay enough attention to you and why they don't appreciate you, here's what we have to say: "Leave the man alone and work on yourself." Stop dreaming about love, create it yourself, because it all starts with you.
Women do not value themselves and are ready to do anything for a man without even thinking or trying to understand why they are driving him away. They do not understand that it is their own fault. You can be the most interesting person in the world, but that's not enough. Because neither female nor male energy works that way.
If you don't respect your femininity, if you don't even know what men need and how they think, you're simply not ready, you're not good enough for the relationship you dream of.
Work on yourself. Find your voice, know who you are, respect and love yourself first. Only then start thinking about the relationship. In this way, you will be satisfied with yourself and a man will want to be with you. When you love and respect yourself, that right partner will find you.
Here are three steps you can take to receive in your relationships respect, gratitude and self-love!
1. Know what men need and don't give them what you think they need
What does your partner really need? What are his deepest dreams and fears? And how can you help him achieve or overcome it? Before you dive into a relationship and give your heart to a person, you need to understand the nature of men and women. Feel, taste, fill your thoughts, mind with information and knowledge about how the opposite sex works. How their brain works, how they renew their energy, what fulfills them, what drowns them. This is very important because these aspects are often very different.
What do men need to feel inspired and fulfilled and what do women need?
Have you ever admired men's ability to go where they are meant to be without any of the doubts and fears that women sometimes have? Have you ever been mesmerized by their precise understanding of what they want? Over strategies, how will they get there? Or their passion when they talk about a goal? If you answered "yes", then you agree that it is one of the good qualities of a man determination.
When a woman achieves her goal, she satisfies her ego, but for a man, it's a completely different story. From an energetic point of view, determination is like breathing for them. By achieving their goal, men renew their energy and feel fulfilled. This makes them so determined and willing to sacrifice a lot for what they want.
Do you remember the feeling when you were enjoying the idle time on the beach? Women associate happiness and joy with it. They feel renewed, full of energy, inspired. Men, when asked the same question, would say that they don't understand how a woman can spend so much time on the beach doing nothing. The man wants to work. A woman wants to feel. Both restore their energy in their own way. Men experience the same sense of relaxation as women when they achieve their goal.
2. Men feel happy when they achieve higher and higher goals
Don't wonder why men don't value you enough if you give in to them too quickly. Women yearn to give love to a man. They need love, men don't. They need love like any other human being, but it is not the most important thing for them. When you try to give men too much love, you don't give them the chance to try and succeed in getting your female attention.
People appreciate more what they have worked hard for. For men, this principle also applies to partner relationships, as they unconsciously see achievements and goals in everything - in this way, they renew their energy. When you give them too much or forget about yourself, you rob a man of his energy, you rob him of one of the most important things for a man's happiness - the impulse to achieve.
When a woman loves and values herself first, she gives him more than any love or care can give him. To give him inspiration, passion for life. "Our first job in life is to get to know ourselves. I realized this early enough, because of that I was able to do what I am and be who I am," says Michelle Obama
Love is not everything. Life is much more than the comfort of love. It is a bright, varied and incredibly interesting and challenging journey. No matter how much love fills you, it will never be enough.
Real life requires respect, understanding, growth and many other things. All this does not automatically come in the package of love. It is what we develop as we learn, explore and grow.
3. Be the inspiration a man needs
As you shape yourself, your feminine energy, your interests, as you develop your talents and confidence, you make your man want to get to know you moment by moment. To strive for the goal, to be with you at all levels of your journeys.
Don't fall in love or marry someone you only like visually. Fall in love with someone better than you so you can grow with them. This is how you are appreciated. Be the woman every man dreams of - the one who inspires him.
