Single people who feel lonely know that they no longer have the strength to wonder every day who conspired against them, that they cannot find their soulmate. In front of society, they pretend that single life is their choice, but inside the four walls they suffer because they are lonely. And nobody deserves that.
If you are single and feel lonely, it's probably not easy for you, but have it in consolation fact, that absolutely every person had a similar experience. And most are spoke, that single life their choice - or so they thought - but eventually realized that there were LONELINESS got into her own claws.
The truth about the single life is for you at this moment maybe painful, but you can it helps - make some changes and people will start looking at you differently. Maybe you too will find your happiness soon! Until then, work on yourself!
The painful truth about the single life that everyone is silent about:
You don't matter anymore.
Single life is synonymous with singular. You realize that at the end of the day, you have no one to talk to about all the things that have happened to you. You don't have a person who listens to you and you are ready to tell them everything. Your friends may be in a happy relationship, married, or have islands, so you're no longer an important part of their lives and feel like you're taking up their time. You just want someone to listen to you with interest.
Touching
Couples have intimate moments that are in the public eye or just behind four walls. Lonely people also want to feel the touch of another important person. We seem to live in a time where genuine human contact is something completely foreign. The lack of this pleasant feeling makes you forget what it's like to be touched by a person.
You are jealous.
Jealousy is certainly not something to brag about. Sometimes you can't control your emotions, even if you tell yourself you will. It probably seems to you that everyone around you is in a happy relationship, only you haven't managed to find your soul mate. The posts on other people's social networks make you despair, because you realize that there is only an empty bed waiting for you at home, while others are "enjoying".
It's hard for you because you see all your friends slowly getting closer to someone. People you don't know are also in a relationship. It seems to you that the entire culture is centered around love and finding a soulmate. And everyone succeeds!
Third person
Wherever you go with a group of people, you'll feel like the third wheel. Your friends may invite you out for drinks and lunches because they don't want you to feel lonely. You realize that you are single and have nothing to do with people who make up a 'couple'. Sometimes you wish you were the one in the foreground and not always someone holding the candle.
Family also plays an important role - it is clear that you will always be able to turn to your parents, brothers and sisters, but a partner bond is not the same as a family bond. Love is something completely different.
Not everything is so perfect.
You probably think your neighbor's grass is greener than yours. Somewhere deep inside you realize that this is not true. You will tell everyone around you that single life is the same as freedom.
Single life is not your choice. For not having a partner, you can choose to feel lonely, but you can't. After all, no one wants to be alone and feel empty.
