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The truth you don't want to hear: you have to move on, whether you want to or not

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Whether you want to or not, you have to move on.

You can't imagine it now, but you have to move on. Everything feels empty without him. He was a part of your everyday life, a part of your habits, your routine, your intimacyYour world has changed. revolved around him, even though you may not have wanted to admit it. And now that he's gone, everything is turned upside down.

I know you feel like everything is falling apart. Because he was so deeply involved in your life that you feel like you're going to fall apart with him.
But the truth is simple: Your life will be different now.

And that hurts.

Part of you has to adjust to something you didn't want to. But listen - you are not alone. Your pain is real. Your sense of loss is strong. And no one expects it to be easy or that you will get over it overnight. But with everything you are feeling right now – you will move forward nonetheless.

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Let him go. Photo; Freepik

You probably think that you can't imagine happiness without him anymore. That nothing makes sense without him. But look – He wasn't your beginning.. And it won't be your end.

You existed before him.

You were alive, you were whole. And you will exist after him. And you will still be you.

Too often we forget that even the "worlds" into which we project everything are not permanent. People come. People go. And even though you may have wanted him to stay – he didn't. And that hurts. But it's not the end of the world. Just as he moved on, so will you.

It will be scary at first.

It will be strange. It will be quiet. But you will begin to put your world back together – slowly, differently, but honestly. And when you are ready, you will enter a new chapter. Not because you will forget, but because you deserve to move on.

Because the best part of you didn't stay with him. The best part of you is still here. And it's still growing.

Time will take its course.

Today, it's impossible for you to believe that you'll ever pass by the places where you were together without your heart aching. That you'll hear their song and your tears won't flow. But that day will come.

you have to move on
And luck will knock on your door. Photo; Freepik

You need to move on because your love is not for someone who can't stay.

Love doesn't end with one person.

Love remains. And you still have it. And someone out there will know how to recognize it. And will know how to return it.
You have to move on. Not because you chose to. But because the one you held on to is gone. The world you shared is no longer the same. And if you stay there, you'll only even more lost. There's nothing left for you there. Only pain.

Your options?

Either you stand still and slowly lose yourself, or you take the first step into something you can't even imagine yet - but is meant for you. You have to move. forwardBecause your story is not over yet. Because life is waiting for you. And he has something for you that you can't see now. But you will.

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