Sexuality is the most intimate act that binds two souls into one. But this can also have a divisive effect. What actions can a man not stand?
Even if there was a sexual revolution decades ago that entered all pores of sexual life, and liberalized it, it is also to a large extent harmed women. Even today, in our society, sexual pleasure is the domain of men, not women. It is appropriate for a man to speak publicly about his experiences because they make him "better”, while a woman who likes sex is targeted as “vile". Everything also revolves around the male climax, which he has to take care of first, then the woman's turn. And she is the one who she was supposed to be in charge also to make her man feel like a king in bed. As the best. The strongest.
It is perfectly normal for every woman to want to please her partner, but the effort must be mutual – just as she makes a man feel like a king, so he must make a woman feel like a queen. So sexuality is communication. CONVERSATION and AGREEMENT about, what you both want.
Preferences differ, so it is advisable that you talk about your own desires, fetishes and tastes, because only in this way will your sex life worked. If you can guess what each other's desires are, you can hardly expect to be sexually compatible.
Of course, at the beginning of the relationship it is about such things more difficult to speak, so we advise you to pay attention to some things that in beds disappoint men, until they are close enough to talk about it spoke face to face.
4 actions in bed that disappoint a man:
You're comparing him to your ex.
You also wouldn't feel comfortable if your partner mentioned that his ex was much better in bed. At least in the beginning of the relationship, it would hurt you. During intercourse, there is no time to recall anecdotes from past relationships, because his friend will literally flush. The partner will lose his will because he certainly does not want to hear how his penis is worse, smaller, thinner than the ex.
If you can't keep quiet and want to tell him this by all means, save these conversations for other occasions when you two know each other enough and the situation is appropriate, not during sex.
You use petting machines and shrinking machines.
Most couples adopt a number of affectionate names over time that become part of the relationship and somehow seem like they can't function without them. However! Better not use this in bed. First: You probably already know that the human brain loves to hear dirty words during sex. Second: You don't want your partner to feel like a child.
Reducers and fondlers, which are not suitable for bed, should be used in other situations, because they will have a better effect.
You are selfish.
Egoists are tiresome in all spheres of life, especially in bed. A man can lose the will to live, not to mention the will to sex. It is difficult to enjoy intimacy with a person who only thinks about himself. It's true that some men like dominant women who take the reins into their own hands, but that doesn't mean they also like selfishness. It is important that they provide double pleasure.
You are lying about protection.
Lies are not only painful for the person, but also dangerous for both parties involved. It is completely unacceptable for you to lie that you have protection against unwanted pregnancy when in fact you do not. They both know that they should use a condom if they are not in a relationship but are casual friends. If you're in a relationship, you both know you're healthy, but you don't want to have children, then you should come to a reasonable agreement about what form of protection you'll use.
If you cheat on your partner, he will not forgive you for such a mistake, because you know that a child is a responsibility. And you also don't want to be alone when you need help the most.
