Whether you want to admit it or not, the adult industry affects your relationship - what you see on the screen is a fiction that you often don't experience in your own bed. And you shouldn't be embarrassed by this, because you are not the only one - couples from all over the world blindly believe in the myths of the porn industry. And we really should stop doing that!
Experts say pornography is an illusion, in which you meet the "perfect partner", who is always ready, waiting for you and wants your attention. He is quick-witted, young, attractive and adventurous. This partner will never be bored, he will not be tired, he does not need rest and no one to listen to his problems. He always climaxes. If it disappoints you, s you can find a replacement for it with a simple mouse click.
And some would ask what's wrong, if everyone indulges in a little fantasy. There's nothing wrong with that! As experts say, the problem is not in fantasizing, but the adult industry has unique characteristics, which you later find difficult to implement in real life. Since this is happening, it can be real life sex doomed to failure due to the gap between expectations and reality.
And so, as scientists have also found, there is instability in relationships, an increased risk of infidelity and a greater likelihood that the relationship will disintegrated. Partners become less committed, less satisfied with their relationships and extremely cynical about love. Their communication tends to deteriorate, which often means that the smallest thing sparks a heated argument.
There are countless myths from the adult industry, and each one is said to have a certain impact on your relationship. We will highlight only some that you must have met. Think about whether it's worth it for fiction to (spoil) your romance!
Myths you blindly believe:
The climax MUST be loud
You'll be hard-pressed to find an adult movie that doesn't feature loud gasps and moans. It is in real life intercourse much quieter and not so dramatic. Vocalization is not synonymous with a good climax, although many couples use it to simulate what they think that it HAS to BE that way.
Size matters
On the Internet, everyone is a giant, but in real life, not everything is as long, thick, solid as it seems. Scientists are supposed to prove that the size of the limb does not affect the quality of the relationship, which means that the rule that says technique counts is obviously true. Well, in movies, the stereotype of the big limb is a "must have" because the filmmakers think it is this is a true indicator of sexuality.
Anal intercourse is spontaneous
Couples who swear by this type of relationship know that they have to prepare for it - shower, lubricant, patience, relaxation, massage... Of course, all these details are excluded from the films! Don't forget about hygiene, because by changing from one type of sexual intercourse to another, a woman can get an infection.
Everything that happens in a movie has to happen in real life
Movie scripts tend to include absurd scenes that even the actors probably wouldn't repeat in their bedroom. The goal of the filmographers is create illusions, which are otherwise not true. Do you really think that certain poses are extremely pleasant?
Foreplay only lasts a few minutes
If filmmakers were shooting long preludes, everyone would be looking for alternatives that will satisfy their desires as soon as possible. Statistics show that couples need from 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay, not 10 or 12 seconds as shown in the movies.
Dirty words are a MUST
There are certain phrases that have made their way into adult movies, but that doesn't mean you two have to use them too. Dirty words they are not synonymous with enjoyment and stature!
