A woman who forgives lovers! But! "Men forget but never forgive; women forgive but never forget.” This is the truth!
A woman never leaves at the first opportunity if she truly loves. He doesn't leave if he feels something for the man he has by his side. He doesn't leave if he wants to build a future with him. Also, when she begins to feel that her man has become cold, indifferent, disinterested...
That's when the woman forgives and tries to change things to provoke him to action. Once, twice... but he never does it indefinitely. Because the day comes when she stops giving her soul for both of them, she is disillusioned and all she wants is her own freedom. At that point he doesn't recognize her anymore, he's simply too used to watching her fight alone for both of them.
A loving wife insists on moving things forward. She fights for his love, because she cannot simply leave her loved one. She will make sure nothing is lost in the battle, she forgives because she wants to see his remorse and change.
She will forgive a second time as well. And also the third time, when it will become a habit.
But one day she will stop and realize that the problem is not in her love, but in his indifference. Then she will stop loving. Then she will leave.
You cannot forgive indefinitely, even if the lack of forgiveness brings you to the end. Sometimes it's better that way. When you don't see a reaction from the other side, when all your efforts are lost in his excuses, baseless and meaningless, when you cry every day because you don't know how to solve this relationship, then stop. You deserve more.
A woman who loves forgives. But a woman who forgives too much stops loving...
