Every love story is special and not every love can be characterized by the same characteristics, which is precisely the beauty of human relationships.
Based on the various therapies that psychiatrists have performed with people all over the world, they have come to the conclusion that love relationships go through three stages of inevitable progress, which are the same for all people.
It is simply a process of growing up and maturing the relationship we find ourselves in, as well as us as a person adjusting to the needs of our partners until we reach the ideal balance.
Here are the three stages of a relationship that cannot be avoided!
1. Love and absolute harmony
The first phase of a relationship that keeps us close to our partner and in which we enjoy is certainly love and absolute harmony, that is, the period in which we admire our partner's positive qualities and get to know him day by day. There is no reason not to enjoy this phase of a relationship. Take advantage of every positive moment and show your partner how much he is loved. We gradually get to know the person with whom we are in a relationship, and how relevant this period will be depends on our expectations, desires and attitudes, as well as on the quality and attention provided by the other person.
The falling in love phase lasts up to three years, after which we get to know the other side of our partner's personality.
Wake up
The waking stage can be painful for people who are not meant for each other. Many couples become aware of their partner's negative qualities and realize that this is not the person for them. After the initial infatuation passes, we see the negative sides of our partner - it doesn't have to be negative behavior towards us, it can be flaws in physical appearance, mental state, business and social activities. It is this period that can completely distance us from certain people and show us that these are not the people we wanted to spend our whole life with.
On the other hand, you may recognize the bad qualities of your partner, experience an incredible amount of stress and confusion that will affect your life, but you will not want to part with him. You'll be looking for a way to tell your loved one what you're missing in hopes that they'll become an even better version of themselves.
Meanwhile, your partner is probably also aware of the negative sides of your personality and wants to point out how you feel in order to become an even better person.
This is a turning point because a certain number of people do not want to advance, they are not open enough to advance at the moment, and they perceive the sincere wishes of their partner as an attack on their personality, and thus the breakup occurs.
But if you feel love, then it is logical that the loved one wants you to become even better and to awaken all your potentials. Be ready to cooperate and progress!
Creating a lasting, productive love relationship
When we overcome the tense phase of a love relationship, we have new goals and desires that we fight for together with our partner. You will discover new potential in your partner and encourage him to fulfill his children's wishes, start his own business or start training together and bring your physical appearance to perfection. These are just a few examples, the goal is to inspire each other every day and openly encourage each other to become the best version of themselves. At the end of the day, they proudly return to each other, talk about their feelings, hopes and fears.
Only a relationship in which both are moving forward and talking openly can achieve true love and security, which is twice as strong as infatuation and has no barriers.
