We're All Doing It Wrong: 9 First Date Mistakes

Don't look for mistakes and don't look for perfection.

Sometimes dates don't turn out as perfectly as you'd like them to. Especially if we look for faults in others and our thoughts tell us:You ruined everything.”

Here is 9 errors, which we do on dates. No, you're not the only one doing them, we've all done one of them at some point.

You analyze every message

Some people don't always have their phone with them. Some people don't text as often as you do. Some people don't like to write. Some people don't think about what they write, they just want relevant information. Don't analyze and reverse every written word.

Texting many times results in the end of a relationship. Talk to each other.

You exaggerate and create problems where there are none

Even when everything is fine, you find a problem. Admittedly, when you realize this, you laugh at yourself, how could you have been so stupid... But the mistake has already been made.

You don't fully surrender

You're so afraid of being hurt that you're not sure if you should even get into a relationship. You are with him/her and you are not with him/her. You don't decide. You don't trust the other person, you push them away from you. And only when he leaves do you realize that you didn't really want this.

You disappear instead of explaining

You do not solve problems and obstacles, you prefer to remain silent and cut off contacts.

You don't forgive yourself

You made a mistake and you can't forgive yourself for it. Even though others have forgiven you, you don't want to continue the relationship because of your mistake.

You have too high expectations

You look for what they are not in others. You are ahead of events.

This is the only type of man who will never leave you

You only hear what you want to hear...

… and you ignore the other. Then you wonder when the relationship ends.

You are disappointed. Don't give up, all mistakes can be solved with the right person.

You check him on social networks

Is he with someone else, did he like someone... You are stressing yourself unnecessarily.

You want someone who he doesn't share the same feelings

There is nothing you can do to make someone feel the way you do. You can't make people love you. You persist in the relationship, even if it is one-sided.

Find a lesson in all mistakes and learn something. No, don't give up, all dating, all relationships have ups and downs. Believe me, when you find the right person, all errors will be solvable.