"Everyone loves a woman's confidence as long as it doesn't compromise their ego." - Melanda Jean Claude
Most of her life she had to rely on herself. And still do. Unlike any other woman, she knows how to take care of herself and does not depend on anyone. She built walls around her heart higher than the tallest skyscraper. And she made sure that only a real, authentic person who would see her in her most vulnerable form would destroy them.
Why did she build these walls? To protect herself from the cold and hard world around her. In front of the people who hurt her. She has been hurt many times and has learned that she cannot give love and trust to everyone who wants to come into her life. Because of this, she needed something to protect her heart and soul from people who brought her pain.
Do you know what it means to be in love with a strong, independent woman? It means that you have to put in a lot of effort so that she believes you, that she can trust you. It means being patient until it opens up to you. It means that you are a priority in life and that you will take care of her wounded soul whenever necessary. It means that she will never think that she should change her personality for you.
To reach the protected heart of a strong woman, you must first understand her extraordinary nature. She won't let you into her heart quickly. She won't share her dreams with you when you first meet her. And she definitely won't trust you until she's sure you won't hurt her on purpose. Because letting another person into her world again, who would later hurt her, would be extremely difficult for her.
This particular woman is used to sailing through life alone. She will never show you that she needs your help. She will never allow herself to be weak in front of you. But that doesn't mean you have to let her do everything herself. This means you need to see through her self-doubt and offer her your help.
She is stubborn, self-willed and individualistic. You have to deal with it if you really love her. Hope you're not too late, because if she's alone for a long time, she might get used to it. After a certain time, strong people calm down with the thought that they are alone. And if before it was difficult to reach her soul, after that, without sincere, deep love, it will not be possible.
Although she seems strong and untouchable, she still needs someone to love her. We all need someone. She's just too proud to admit she's vulnerable. If you're ready to be that person, don't hesitate to show her your commitment. And make sure you're always there for her, even when she says she doesn't need you. Only one thing is certain: it won't be easy. But it will be worth it.
Loving such a woman will not be easy or simple, but when she lets you into her heart, you'll know that all the effort you put in was worth her love. Because when he loves, he loves with every cell of his body and with his whole soul. When he loves, he gives all his energy to make the one he loves happy.
You just have to be patient with her. Show her that you're willing to wait, no matter how long it might take, for her to see that she can trust you. Let her know that she doesn't have to deal with life alone. Be the savior he doesn't know he needs. Love her.
