He tells you a lot of nice things, but does he really mean them?
Sometimes a man stands out from the crowd that blows your mind, and this is it balm for your (perhaps) wounded heart and soul. You sip his words and slowly you may even become addicted to them. But what do men think when they shower you with compliments? How do you know they are sincere? Is it all just a game?
We're sure you've fallen in love with his words in a way, but it's good to take a step back and think about his motives. Remember, what seems too good to be true almost always isn't.
What motivates a man to shower you with endlessly charming words from the first day you met? Um, why? It's obvious, isn't it? Every man knows that a woman wants to feel beautiful, seductive, special, and if he tells her exactly what she wants to hear, he will probably get what he wants - sex.
How to tell if a man is sincere when sharing compliments? Let's look at the different types of men.
Beware daffodils
Such a man is a good manipulator. He will flatter you endlessly, but at the same time he will find fault with you. Once he gets to know them - real or not - he will lecture you about them, day after day. He will want to change you to fit his vision of a real woman.
A man who wants to have you under control
He tends to find a woman who will fall in love with him quickly. It is a manipulative technique – love bombing. He will write and call you every hour, he will want to be with you every day. He will rush into a relationship. You might think: "It's too good to be true." And it's true. When he feels that he has won you over, that the relationship has progressed, you will notice a big change in his behavior. A man who was full of compliments will suddenly start ordering you around.
An insecure man
Not all men who compliment you are bad. Sometimes a man is in a certain way shocked that his "dream" woman responds to his flattery, and he constantly thinks about you. It's exciting to imagine a man thinking about you, isn't it? But when all these thoughts come out of him, how beautiful you are, how beautiful your eyes, hair, figure and more and more - he will show you his insecurity. He may be hoping to win you over by expressing all the positive aspects of you that caught his attention.
Real man, who finds you attractive will compliment two or three things on you
He won't shower you with compliments as soon as you meet. He will hold back, for self-respect. He doesn't want to show his vulnerability. Self-confidence helps him control his enthusiasm for you.
Through a man's reluctance to praise, you can tell when he has sincerely paid you a compliment. So, if a guy you just met is bombarding you with compliments, it's time to think about it.
Real man they don't reveal their emotions and don't give out compliments just like that when you first meet them. Only manipulative men do such things.
If you're looking for true love, build a relationship with someone slowly. Be with someone you're interested in and keep in touch all the time. With someone who will ask you questions and listen to your answers. With someone who won't just tell you about themselves, but really wants to get to know you. With someone who he makes time for you two.
Now you know what men think when you hear praise from their mouths, but now it's all up to you. Watch your heart and don't fall for sweet words and promises. Open your eyes!
