You realize that you are no one's child anymore - that someone who loved you unconditionally is gone.
We often don't even realize they are our parents are ordinary people, which have their weaknesses. We grow up over the years, but we still look at them as invincible persons, that nothing will ever happen to them, who will always wait for us and strongly support us.
Time passes, parents get older and now they are the superheroes they have become grandmothers and grandfathers. They don't even look alike anymore... and then suddenly they are gone.
At that moment, anyone who has survived the death of a parent, innumerable questions began to swirl in his headi, thoughts ... and above all, regret for words, which should never be said.
7 things that change forever when a parent dies:
You realize that family is important.
No one will ever love you like your parents loved you. You may have misunderstandings, but they never said anything to you because they wanted to hurt you, but to help you.
A loss that is hard to get over.
As long as your parents are alive, you are a child to them, regardless of your age. When they are gone, pain sneaks into your body. You realize that you are a person who is alone in this world. It's the only pain that never fades. Even when everything is right in your life, your heart will always ache because you miss them.
They are disturbed by these persons who complain about their parents.
People complain, but I would give the whole world to hug my parents, to see them... And then I would prefer to shout that they should be happy that their parents are alive.
You will have a hard time coming to terms with the fact that your children will not meet your parents - that your parents will not see your children.
The fact that your parents are no longer in the family photos will hurt you. Because your mother won't be able to tell your children what you were like as a child. Because your children will not know the wisdom of your father.
You will envy people whose parents are alive.
Jealousy is not healthy, but you will have a hard time resisting it because it will hurt you every time you hear that your friends are going to visit their parents. The fact that you won't have anyone to go to for the holidays will hurt you.
When you hear some good news, you will immediately want to call your parents and cheer them up.
Countless times you will find yourself looking for the number of your parents on your mobile phone to call them, but there will be silence on the other side.
You will realize how strong your love for your parents is.
The day your parents are no longer in your life, you will realize how strong your love was for them. And even if they are no longer with you, you will forever carry them in your heart.
Now that you are aware of all the things that completely change in your life when your parents die, we advise you to survive as much time as possible with them. Create memories that will boost your mood every time you remember that your parents are gone and I would cry out loud.
