You have two options to choose from: either you look to the past or you look to the future.
When you are betrayed by a man, any man, you will feel pain. However, if a loved one betrays you, you will most likely feel like your heart is being ripped out.
But when a person says goodbye to his past, a completely new path opens for him, leading FORWARD. It is the pain and suffering that a person experiences at that moment that helps him later becomes stronger.
The greatest energy that helps us succeed is right spiritual pain. When there is betrayal, deception, the other side, the one deceived, comes up with a kind of wall that is difficult to climb over. In such moments, it is mental pain that helps, yes we overcome all obstacles to clear our mind and finally move to a better life.
![The greatest energy that helps us succeed is spiritual pain.](https://e7852c3a.rocketcdn.me/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/kat-j-7i1wrtrz5qq-unsplash-1-660x440.jpg)
Pain encourages a person to change something in life. And this is already written to us at birth. In order for a person to move forward, life always takes something from him. And in such circumstances, everything is a matter of choice: will we live in the past and cry, or will we move forward.
Man is a selfish creature, so he wants to be in charge everywhere and control everything in life. The moment the deception occurs, he curses the gods and fate. It's hard because he already had everything planned, but now everything has fallen into the water. And that's when pain and fear arise, that he will lose everything he has, that his life will change. But man is afraid of change, so everything hurts him even more.
Therefore, it is worth remembering that betrayal or deception in your life is actually an opportunity to start a completely NEW LIFE!