What to do when a man doesn't answer your messages and you don't know what you're up to! Ignorance is the weapon of the weak! Leave such a person in the past!
Why is a man ignoring you?! One of the most common examples of being ignored is when a relationship starts out great, you're texting and talking on the phone, hanging out and seeming to be doing well, and just when you're relaxing and enjoying the relationship, the person you like withdraw.
You feel ignored, full of questions and expectations. Is he actually ignoring you or are you being paranoid?
If he doesn't answer within a few hours, that's no big deal. It is possible that he has some obligations, but in the beginning it is normal that he writes to each other constantly, but later this communication is more rare. However, if he doesn't respond to your texts and refuses calls for days, or his replies are short and cold, this indicates a problem.
Here are the 6 most common reasons why he ignores you:
1. He is mad at you
When a person is angry, it is possible that he will "punish" you with silence, but this is a manipulative way of communication that should not exist in healthy and mature relationships. Ask openly and directly what the problem is. You need to talk about the challenges and obstacles to solve them.
2. He doesn't like you anymore
Silence and ignoring are definitely a sign that there is a problem in the relationship, and one of the reasons could also be that he has realized that they are not for each other. If so, it's important to talk and make it clear - face to face.
3. It needs space
It is possible that he is stressed and overwhelmed, so he needs more space for himself. Maybe he doesn't want to show you his feelings, or he needs time to focus on another aspect of his life.
4. You force things too much
When you have high expectations at the beginning of a relationship, rushing to take the relationship to the next level right away can strain and scare the other party. Emotionally unavailable men often withdraw in such circumstances.
5. He thinks you're not interested
Men are also afraid of rejection, so it's possible that he's withdrawn because he's afraid you'll say no and that can destroy his self-esteem.
6. He is shy
If his body language and the way he communicates shows that he's shy, it could be a sign that he's not texting you first. Such people are tense at the beginning of every relationship and are afraid that something will go wrong. If he doesn't respond, don't force him or call him. Let him take the next step.
What to do when he ignores you?
You can choose to talk to him about what's going on. You can give him some space and time to see if he stops ignoring you.
The most important thing is not to force him, do not call him and do not send a sea of messages.
Of course, you can decide that no matter what happens, you don't have the time or energy for his ignorance. Give him his weapon back - ignore him.
Leave this relationship behind and move on.
