Every mother wants her daughter to be happy. Even happier than her. He looks back on his life experiences and can give her invaluable advice.
However, whether she will want to hear them and take them into account is another question. If she doesn't listen to you, write her a letter, maybe she will read it and among your words she will find invaluable advice that will make her life easier.
Let's look at the letter that Toni Hammer wrote to her daughter.
dear daughter,
… Don't apologize when someone bumps into you.
... Don't say, "I'm sorry I'm so difficult." You're not heavy. You are a person with your own thoughts and feelings that deserve respect.
… Don't make excuses why you can't go out with a guy you don't want to go out with. You don't owe anyone an explanation. A simple, “No, thank you,” should be acceptable.
... Don't think too much about what you eat in front of others. If you're hungry, eat, and eat what you want. If you want pizza, don't order a salad just because others are around you. Order a pizza.
… Don't grow long hair to please someone.
… Don't wear a dress if you don't want to.
… Don't stay at home because you have no one to go out with. Just take yourself out. She experiences experiences herself and experiences them for herself.
… Don't hold back your tears. Tears mean that you feel that something has to come out of you. It's not a weakness. It's human.
… Don't laugh because you're told you should.
… Don't be afraid to laugh at your own jokes.
… Don't just say YES out of politeness. Say NO because it's your life.
… Don't hide your opinions. Say them and say them out loud. They need to hear you.
… Don't apologize for who you are. Be brave, bold and beautiful. Be uncompromisingly you.
Every mother is someone's daughter, and this may also be the reason for such a special and interesting relationship that she then has with her daughter.
Let's look at some more tips that mothers keep for their daughters:
1. No one knows how to dress, dine, or make love perfectly right. No one knows how best to build relationships or houses. Don't know how much is best to save and how much to spend? Going back a step or going forward step by step? All the answers are within you, deep within you. The most important thing is to learn to listen to yourself.
2. Everything in life is equally divided: hate and love, wealth and poverty, laughter and tears, but you can always decide which half you will stick to.
3. The main task is to find yourself and become happy.
4. Don't lie to yourself. Never do that.
5. Women are only friends, not guardians or confessors. If you don't want anyone to know, don't tell anyone.
6. If you don't know what to do, take a break.
7. Every "wrong" man leads you to the right one.
8. Mistakes are inevitable and valuable. They move you to the top.
9. Always think, analyze and doubt. Avoid stereotypes.
10. Whatever happens, it will definitely come tomorrow.
No matter what happens, mom will always love you.
