With these actions, you will kill the man in your partner, and you really don't want that!
Have you ever wondered why your partner no longer cares about you, do you have the feeling that he does not protect you, that he is not responsible and strong? Maybe it's because you made him feel like you can do everything around the house ALONE, and with that you have already killed the man in him. The old wisdom that you should let a man open a jar of jam (even if you could open it yourself) still holds true!
think how often you use the following sentences.
"There's no need for you to carry, I have hands too."
"There's no need for you to cook dinner, I'll come home and fix everything."
"You don't have to wait for me at the bus stop. I'll come alone."
"Don't buy me anything for my birthday. It is enough that you are with me. You are my gift.”
"You don't need to take me to the store, I'll be alone. I can really carry those few bags.”
"I don't need flowers, don't throw money away! You better buy something for our home.”
"There is no need to go to a hotel, an apartment is enough. I will cook."
"It's enough to go on vacation for a week."
"There's no need for you to go to the doctor with me, I'm not a child. I'm going alone."
"There's no need to make me breakfast. I don't eat that early.”
"There's no need for you to spend money on me, I have everything I need."
"Don't tell me what to do, I'm not a child!"
It's okay to be independent and know how to do things yourself, but don't overdo it. When a woman no longer needs anything, the man stops caring for her. It is true that such a woman is self-sufficient, independent and intelligent, but in this way she kills the man in her partner. She might later complain that he became her man insensitive, that he is disinterested. But she won't realize that she contributed to it herself.
If you want a passive-aggressive man by your side, continue to do everything yourself. But if you need a caring, responsible and kind man, mu you have to allow it, to take care of you today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow ... Never kill the man in your partner!
