A happy and self-confident man avoids negative women by and large - don't be dark, but appreciate what you have.
Men are not such complicated creatures, as it seems at first glance. They value simplicity and spontaneity in a relationship. And maybe it's because you're trying too hard and thinking you have to do A LOT to make your relationship work that you're making fatal mistakes, whose influence is reflected in your romantic relationship.
There are certain things that men are repulsed. It is absolutely right that you love yourself and do things that make you happy, because your partner should accept you as you are. But you probably also know that a relationship is based on reciprocity, compromises and renunciation for love's sake. If you are ready to make sacrifices for your loved one, then we advise you to you avoid things, that repel men.
Fatal mistakes that make a man go to another woman ...
You underestimate yourself
A smart, ambitious and confident man will admire your intelligence and not be afraid of it. If you find yourself constantly conforming to your man because you want to attract him and keep him with you, but at the same time losing your own personality, it is obvious that you are in a relationship with a person who does not appreciate your uniqueness.
You are glued to it
Every man (and woman too) needs time for himself, so you need to give him enough space. As much as you need it. You will notice that after some time he will come back to you because he will notice that he misses you and he will appreciate the freedom that you give him again and again.
You act like you are his mother
Sigmund Freud explained in his toeries that male children somehow want to stay with their mother forever. And a recent study also confirmed that men prefer women who resemble their mothers. But that doesn't mean you have to take on that role!
Don't be negative
It doesn't matter what type of relationship it is, a positive attitude is extremely important. No one will associate with a negative child. Friends will not invite negative people for a drink. Men (and women) will not like negative partners. Don't be gloomy, but worship life, enjoy the little things and appreciate what you have.
You flirt with other men
In healthy relationships, it's perfectly normal for no one to blindly enter a relationship, and evolutionarily humans are made to look out for “potential mating material,” but that doesn't mean you're completely available to other people. With such actions, you show that you do not respect your partner enough. If you are bored in life and have a need to dramatize it, you are not mature enough for a relationship. Stay alone until you grow up.
