Do you feel like you're always giving and he's just taking? That you're the only one making an effort and he's just floating in the background? Don't accept less than you're worth! You deserve a man who gives more than the bare minimum!
Are you waiting for him to wake up? To really show him how much you mean to him? To one day, someday, maybe, you will become what you deserve?
How many times have you heard the same excuses? Always the same story, the same promise – “just be patient a little longer.” But time passes, and you are still in the same place. Maybe you are even regressing.
And you know what? That's not love.
When you give everything and get nothing in return
You are not his mother, you are not his therapist, you are not his teacher. Your purpose is not to teach him how to love.
If you have to ask for basic attention, if you have to remind him that he needs to respect you, if you have to repeat over and over again what hurts you – then you are not in a relationship, but in a one-way street where only you move.
And when you finally decide to confront him about it, all you get back is fluff.
“I just have to finish this project…”
“I'm not ready for anything serious…”
"You know I care, I just don't know how to show..."
remember – no one is too busy for what is truly important to them.
Are you his priority?
Love is not a puzzle you have to solve. You don't have to analyze every message he sends, you don't have to put his pieces together and guess if you're even part of his picture.
True love is clear. Simple. You feel it. You see it. You don't have to look for it.
Minimum effort isn't romantic, it's sad
When he calls you only when it suits him. When he shows up just so he doesn't lose you, not because he really wants you. When he apologizes just so you'll leave him alone.
This is not proof of love.. That's the minimum. And the minimum will never be enough for someone who deserves more. You deserve more!
Don't wait for it to change - go, because you've waited too long.
Maybe when you leave, he'll suddenly realize what he had. Maybe he'll finally say the right words. Maybe he'll promise everything he never delivered.
But ask yourself – why do you have to step backto even notice your value?
Don't wait for the day he realizes how amazing you are. Find someone who knows it today.
You deserve more than just the minimum!
