Life is a school and the number one subject you learn is love.
He came into your life for a reason! The most important and sometimes the most difficult life lesson comes to us through people. Through love and acceptance. And we can only give love to others if we have it. What we do not have, we cannot give to anyone.
Your man is your mirror! It reflects what is inside you.
Any man who attracted you with his energy is the right one. If you're only attracted to mama's boys, that's not a bad thing, it's a fact. The fact that you need such a person right now. The man who entered your life describes your problems from the outside.
Watch it and get to know yourself better in this way.
If he entered your life a jealous man, as a woman you need to re-examine your sexuality. You are probably a person who is still exploring and wondering who and what attracts you.
If he came into your life a tyrant, then it's time to learn to listen to yourself. Because women who live with tyrants are women who have completely erased their understanding of what boundaries are. This turned them into victims. They constantly feel sad, lonely and abandoned. They think they are born to suffer.
If your life has entered alcoholic or addict, he can only teach you one lesson, to respect yourself. She must know that she is self-sufficient, that she can do it herself, that she is capable of anything.
If he came into your life mother's son, then you belong to the type of woman who does not know how to give a man strength. You decide everything yourself, you know everything best, you want to adapt the man to you.
If he entered your life liar, feeds you with promises it never keeps. Such a person entered your life to tell you "Start appreciating yourself!"
Therefore, take a good look at what kind of man you have next to you and what he teaches you. Do you need to change? Do you need to find someone to teach you something else? Don't just wait for your prince on a white horse. Because he won't date a woman who is full of complexes or one who can't stand up for herself.
An inverted mirror shows you the qualities that annoy you in others, but all of this is also in you. Only you don't see it.
For example, the husband is lazy, lies on the sofa and does nothing. You look at it and get angry. This means that you would also rather sit on the bed next to him and do nothing. But they taught you the values of work and you know it's not good. Therefore, you live in terrible stress and endless competition - work, house, children, school, cleaning, etc. What to do? Allow yourself to be lazy sometimes. Lie down, rest, go for a massage... Or, for example, to live with a weakling, even though you are a strong person. The only solution is to learn to be weak sometimes. If a person is irresponsible, it means that you control everything around you. You have to relax, believe that someone else can also do something good.
A loved one is not someone who suits you 100%. A loved one is someone who is willing to go through good as well as bad situations with you. They must accept each other as they are.
