Are you still single? These are 7 brutally real reasons why you can't find a partner

We often wonder why we are still single, why we fail to establish a serious relationship and why we do not find someone with whom we can build a future.

Why, why, why?

Why is it that if we do manage to start a conversation with a guy, it quickly dies down? Why is it that once we find someone we like, they soon disappear? Why is it so acceptable to disappear without a goodbye or with a flimsy excuse? Why is it that if we meet someone interesting today, they are gone the next day? Why? Just why.

You are too serious

You may be too young for marriage and children, but you are definitely too old for superficial conversations. Now you want a serious relationship. You want to be with someone who is able to be there for you. You don't need trivial "hey", but sincere "how was your day?". You don't need night messages, but morning wishes for a nice day.

You have high demands

Your expectations are high. You have standards you don't want to lower. You demand time and attention. You want them to spend time with you, even if it's just a short call or a simple dinner.

You need someone who will listen to your stories, theories and passions. You are asking for interest in your emotions and not just physical attraction. You need someone who will appreciate your preferences and important moments in your life.

You have no time for trivial relationships

You have time for honest and real conversations. You have time to talk about life, dreams and goals. Meanwhile, others may only be interested in casual hookups with no strings attached. Their interests are superficial and they are not ready for serious commitments. This may be the reason why you never manage to establish a serious relationship.

You are future-oriented

While others think only of present pleasures, you plan for the future. You want to build something lasting, but it scares those who live for the moment. Your desire for long-term commitments and commitments is too intimidating for them. They don't like long-term plans and want to keep their freedom.

You are not their priority

They have other things that are more important to them. Their time is valuable and they don't want to spend it on you. Even though you know they could take the time if they wanted to, they prefer to focus on other things. If they don't put you first, then they might not be worth your time.

They just don't like you

The reason could be simple – they might just not like you. There is no need for further explanations.

Maybe you deserve more than just a boyfriend

Maybe at the end of the day, you don't just deserve a boyfriend, you deserve a man. A man who will be constant, faithful and responsible for your feelings and future. Someone who will appreciate your feelings and know how important they are. Maybe you weren't meant to be with someone average. The right man will recognize your true worth and you won't have to lower your standards.

The right man will come to you when the time is right. Don't look for him, he will find you himself. He will understand your value and respected your standards. You won't always be single!