Men were asked and got extremely different answers. However, scientists studying attachment and relationships have come up with some unexpected answers. We reveal when men perceive women as good or excellent in sex.
What do men really like about sex? Men on Reddit have answered this question and it is precisely these 11 characteristics that make a woman the best lover in bed.
Some of the answers of the men who answered this question may surprise you, but it is also important to know that men really do not look at whether you have perfect curves and "stretchable" limbs. Let's see what Reddit users have to say!
1. Enthusiasm
"Enthusiasm, enthusiasm and again... enthusiasm!"
2. Attractiveness
"I don't really care what a woman does in bed. It is more important to me that I love this person and that I am strongly attracted to them.”
3. Sparkles
"First of all, it's the chemistry between us. The best sex I ever had was with a woman I was strongly attracted to, and I could clearly feel it myself.”
4. Lust
"Men long to be wanted, just like women. When a woman whispers in my ear that she wants me to be sexy and shows it to me, I consider that a super sexy thing!”
5. Caressing
"When he shows me that he loves my body. I don't care if he shows me this with a gesture (puts his arm around my hips, hugs me, ...). I think it's brilliant when he wants to cuddle with me."
6. Openness and confidence
"Sexual compatibility. I have some special preferences and I think it's great when a woman is open to them, even if she's never tried it before. I think it's important that I feel good in bed and that I can be who I really am without fear that she will judge me for something. But the best thing a woman can do during sex is to show her confidence.”
7. Commitment
"Each one is different. As long as she enjoys sex, comes and tells what she likes in bed, that's the best thing."
8. Heart
"Enthusiasm is everything! Talent and skills count for nothing if you don't put your heart into it.”
9. She likes to experiment
"If a woman is happy to explore all possible aspects of sexuality, that's a wonderful experience for me. The ability to communicate is very important here."
10. Mobility
"What makes a woman good in bed is that we don't even have to be in bed. All I want is for him to want me - and it doesn't have to be between the sheets in bed with the lights dimmed right before bed. I want him touching me in the car, making love in the kitchen, it doesn't matter where. We don't have to go all the way, I just want to know that he wants me. I find that very sexy.”
11. Presence
"The fact is she's in bed WITH ME."
