"Be the person you never had the courage to be." - Paulo Coelho
People change over time, and knowledge and experience make us a stronger person, a person who knows what he wants and where his path takes him.
What are some unusual signs that you are becoming a good person?
Do everything yourself
The older you are, the more you feel like you can do everything yourself and don't want to be a burden to anyone. Feel proud of yourself because it has made you strong and independent.
You realize you have some problems
You know for a fact that you have issues to overcome, be it your anxiety, mood swings, partnership issues, and the like. You will try your best to beat them.
Break toxic relationships
You feel like you have many acquaintances but few friends. You begin to learn who is a true friend and who is not. Although you will be a little disappointed, you are brave enough to leave relationships that are toxic and emotionally abusive.
You have a hard time trusting people
You have been disappointed many times by people who took advantage of your trust, but to those you believe in, you will be loyal to them and will do everything to maintain the friendship.
You find life boring
Sometimes you are not satisfied with your life. It seems to you that there is something more that you would like to achieve. Routine makes you restless. Even if you think your life is "boring" because you don't have unnecessary drama in your life, that's something you should be proud of.
You are sensitive and vulnerable
There are days when you feel full of hope, but there are also times when you feel like you are at the lowest point in your life. But even though your heart is broken, you've experienced failures, disappointments and feelings of sadness, you always pick yourself up and find lessons in them.
You are running out of time
You often feel like there aren't enough hours in the day. You're not getting enough sleep. You find it hard to make time for yourself and your loved ones because you feel like there's always something else you need to do. Despite being too hard on yourself when you do what you do, it's a sign that you have an unstoppable determination to succeed.
You regret the mistakes you made in the past
Blame yourself for all the mistakes you made in the past. You admit to yourself that you've made some bad decisions and sometimes you wish you could go back. But you realize that regrets will get you nowhere and that the only thing you can do is not to repeat the same mistakes.
You miss your family
You realize that all the work, all the sacrifices, all the struggles and successes will be the best gift for everyone you love.
You sometimes feel lost about your future
You seem bold and strong, but most of the time you feel extremely insecure. You ask yourself what you really need and what your purpose in life is. But despite all the confusion and fears, you always manage to get your work done.
At the end of the day, you realize that you have to live one day at a time and you fully understand that everything will happen based on how YOU react to life.