Love must be carefully nurtured day by day.
Relationships are like plants, if you don't water them, the love will die out. They don't need much, just a little "watering" a few times a week so they don't wither.
In relationships, after the initial falling in love and living together, the partners begin to feel comfortable and sooner or later begin to take each other for granted. Or maybe they allow their needs, desires, goals to go the other way, the way without a partner.
To prevent this from happening, we recommend that you do at least one of the listed small things for him/her every day.
1. Ask your partner what they want
When someone asked you a simple question: "What do you want us to do? Where do you see us in your dreams? Where and what are we in your mind?" Such questions encourage communication, because the partner might not start talking about it on his own. They give him a chance to think about what and how he could improve your relationship.
2. Validate your partner's feelings
People often feel misunderstood in relationships. Emotions are complicated, but one thing is certain - you can't pretend you don't feel how someone feels. If you support your partner in his feelings, regardless of whether you agree with what caused them, he will feel understood.
3. Give them space for their needs
We all need time to ourselves, especially if you live together. Part of a healthy relationship is having a place to do activities and hang out with friends without your partner around. Give your partner some time each day to do whatever makes them happy without you.
4. Don't forget the little things
They have a lasting and valuable effect. They say your love lives on. Remind him of dates, places, small things you enjoyed. Or let's say you know your partner has an important meeting and you ask, call or text them how it went. At the same time, he will have the feeling that you wish him well.
5. Make your relationship yours, not just a bunch of news on social media
Maybe post some photos, but not every day and not about everything you do. When things don't go your way and problems arise, share them only with those you trust. Don't leave bitter words on social media.
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6. If possible, don't refuse to hang out with his friends/family
One of the best feelings is having people around you that your partner values.
This creates a deeper connection and respect between you.
7. Show your love in their love language
Everyone has a different way of giving and receiving love. Ask your partner what their love languages are and show them love every day. Remember that the way you show love may be different from the way your partner receives it. Communicate!
8. Be open with your partner
Communication is the first reason for divorce and for the collapse of a relationship. Postponing resentment or talking about something important will harm both you and the relationship.
9. Make them feel important
Remind your partner how wonderful he is, how well he does his job. Tell him that you are grateful that he came into your life. We often forget to tell our loved ones how much they mean to us.
10. Work on yourself
The best thing you can do for your partner is to be the best version of yourself around them. Do things you enjoy. Cultivate self-love. This is the best thing you can do for your partner every day. If you feel good in your own skin and with your partner, he/she will feel the same way
