It is generally accepted that people work with us the way we allow or let them. And this is largely true. And what is it that you should never allow? What 10 things are poisoning our lives?
10 things that poison our lives:
Shame about our appearance or our life choices
We must be aware that this dress code must be followed. But if someone talks negatively about our clothes, our figure, our choice of partner, then don't start making excuses. It's not your fault and you don't owe anyone an explanation or an apology. Remember, plugins tend to have pretty boring lives.
You are forced to choose between family life and career.
Nowhere does it say that you are forced to leave your family for work or vice versa. That's why you should never get rid of the pressure of work or family and devote your time to what you really want. Janso's expressed wishes and smartly allocated time will help you to get the job done and at the same time devote yourself to your family as well as your hobbies or entertainment.
Everything is already decided.
Your parents may indeed have more experience, but that does not give them the right to make decisions for you or to try to influence your decisions. This is your life. You are the one who will bear the consequences of your decisions.
Relationships in which you are unhappy.
No one is saying you have to break up with your partner right away. But if your life is easier and above all happier without a partner, you have to ask yourself what it is that still binds you together.
Forced sexual intercourse, including with a partner
Your body belongs only to you. The right partner will accept your wishes and will understand "no". In the event that the opposite happens and you are accused of selfishness, you have a serious reason to reconsider your relationship.
Scam after scam
Don't overlook the systematic lies of your relatives, friends or partner. Be honest and tell the other person that you know they are lying to you. Changing people is not your concern, you can only be a support. But be aware that those who truly love and respect you will never lie to you.
Disrespect in the workplace
Unfortunately, many people witness disrespect from their employer or co-workers. If you find yourself in a similar situation, ask yourself if you really need this job. Don't hesitate to fight for your rights and don't be afraid to speak up if you are not respected.
Physical and emotional abuse
There is no excuse for those who insult or beat. Your safety is extremely important and you should never be with someone who puts your physical or mental health at risk. You have every right to stop the abuse and, if necessary, report the person.
Constant control
If someone is controlling your every move, be it parents, friends or partner, don't justify it by saying that they are just worried. Everyone needs personal space and a relationship is impossible if there is no mutual trust. If such a situation is left to chance, it can develop into a real tyranny.
Finding "imperfections"
Perfection is a myth. There is no "ideal child", "real man" or "dream girl", although we almost always have them in mind. This does not give us the right to remind our loved ones again and again of what they lack. Don't let them convince you that you need a new hairstyle or new clothes. If someone is genuinely concerned about your health or well-being, then just listen to their advice.
