"Out of ten thousand men there are seven or eight thousand who love women, five or six hundred who love a woman, and one who loves only one woman." - Dumas the younger
He seems pretty enthusiastic to you, but is he being honest? Does he want a relationship or is he just fooling you? Don't waste your time with a man who lies to you and gives you nothing but empty promises.
Check out 11 signs that prove he doesn't want a relationship with you.
1. He doesn't want to define the relationship
He doesn't want to be labeled. He's a man who asks you out and acts like they're a couple, but then claims he doesn't like the label of a relationship. You are or you are not in a relationship. He doesn't see the point in the relationship. He wants to be free. What he's really telling you is that he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship.
2. They are not related
He says he's afraid of you or gives you some kind of compliment that fades after a while. You feel empty. He doesn't want to know what's going on with you. He doesn't ask you questions about your life, your goals... Sometimes you wonder what he even knows about you.
3. "Take off your clothes."
Although he is not interested in your personal life, he wants you to enter his bedroom. In fact, it's the first thing he wants to do when he walks into the apartment. It's not just that he's so crazy about you that he can't wait to be intimate, but he just wants to…
4. He just wants intimacy
He never invites you to dinner or to a show. He is always texting you to come to him. Still claiming he wants to be your man? Does he only text you in the evenings and late hours? Don't fall for it again. What he wants most is for you to be his woman for sex.
5. He doesn't want to go on a date
If you always feel like he always wants you to go to his place instead of going out to the movies, drinks, or a restaurant, he just wants to focus on the physical relationship, not the relationship. It hides you.
6. He's not over his ex
She may not be physically in his life anymore, but the spirit of his ex is still there. He'll talk about her with a sad look in his eyes, or he'll be angry about what happened during their breakup. It's clear that she hurt him and maybe he's not over it yet.
7. You are not a priority
Find out what is happening in his life on social networks. You are never invited to important events in his life. He has no time for you. You are not important to him. You are not a priority.
8. It is hot and cold
It gives you a lot of mixed signals. One minute he's flirting with you, the next he's ignoring you and not calling you for five days. It is clear that the man is not serious, otherwise he would behave differently
9. Don't try
When he first met you, he tried to make you fall in love with him. Now that he has you, he acts like he's tired after a long run and just wants to curl up on the couch. A man who is truly interested in a serious relationship will not stop trying. He won't act like he doesn't care if you're with him or not.
10. He leaves everything to you
Do you feel like your relationship only goes through the motions you make? You are the one who has to make contact and plan.
11. It leaves you speechless
If you had to cut off the relationship for a while and freeze it, you worry that you would never hear from him again. I would leave you speechless. This is a clear sign that he does not care, that he is not making an effort and is just taking up space in your life.
Of course, every single sign is not a reason for a man to turn you around, but if a set of these signs appears or communication between you is not possible, it's time to think about whether this is the man you want in your life!
