If in 2021, your relationship with your partner is not what you imagined it would be, you need to make certain changes in your life. But first, you need to figure out what those things are that are holding you back. The ones that make or break your relationship.
Relationships are not easy, especially when the same patterns appear in them and you do nothing about it. Or if the relationship is toxic and you stay in it out of habit.
Check if some of these things are happening to you. And if you find yourself in most of the written facts, remove them from your life as soon as possible, even if it means that the relationship must end.
1. You have the same arguments over and over again
One or the other apologizes for their behavior, but it obviously means nothing to anyone because you keep making the same mistakes over and over again. They don't grow and change as a couple. They are simply going round and round and repeating history.
2. You don't want to be in his company
You are more excited about the idea of seeing friends, family or being alone. You'd rather be at work than with him.
3. You no longer feel emotional affection for each other
They no longer feel the desire to hold hands or to give him a long and loving hug. You prefer to keep your distance, physically and emotionally.
4. When things are bad in your relationship, they are really bad
Your partner teases you without remorse, making you feel like you're worthless. Even though you love him through thick and thin, when you fight, you don't know him anymore, like he's become someone else.
5. You feel like you're standing still
You haven't become a better person since you've been with him, you've only become more toxic. You are not happy with the way you behave or treat yourself and others when you are around him.
6. You are interested in someone else, someone with whom you would like to explore a relationship
If you think about this person more than your partner, you should think twice and end the relationship before doing something you regret.
7. You only stay in a relationship for convenience
Because you are used to being with him. Because you can't imagine life without it. Remember that your history is not a reason to stay with someone if you are unhappy. It's never too late to change. If you were with him yesterday, it doesn't mean you have to be with him tomorrow or for the rest of the day.
8. You feel disrespected, unappreciated and unheard
It's one thing if your partner makes a small mistake. It's another thing if he keeps making this mistake even though he knows how much it hurts you. Communication and compromise are key to any relationship. If your partner won't listen to you, what's the point of talking to them?
9. Your partner never apologizes for his mistakes
He never admits that he has done anything wrong. He tries to shift the blame to everyone but himself, especially you. He will never mature because he refuses to register his own mistakes.
10. You feel like you're the only one struggling in the relationship
Your partner should be there for you when you need him. You shouldn't be the only one providing emotional support. I should encourage you. Support and help when you need help.
11. You are not happy
You don't need a good reason to break up with someone. If you're not happy, you can leave. You shouldn't force yourself to stay in a relationship with someone just out of habit or because it looks good to others. If you are not happy, you must decide to change that fact.
