The words we say to our children can have a profound effect on their emotional and psychological well-being. We can get caught up in common phrases or habits, but it's important to be aware of the impact our words can have.
Here are 20+ words that never, but really never < This can send the message that the child is not capable of learning on his own and can work against building his confidence. This phrase can lead a child to believe that something is wrong with them and can have a lasting effect on their self-esteem. While parents want to encourage their child to do their best, this phrase can put unnecessary pressure on them. While it's important to encourage big goals, it's not always wise to tell kids they can be anything they want. Studies have shown that setting overly ambitious goals can be harmful and have significant negative side effects. This phrase can make a child feel less safe and believe that you may not always be there to protect and care for them. This statement can harm the child's emotional development and make him feel that he has nowhere to vent his hurt and anger. Putting all the emphasis on grades and achievement can backfire, causing children to do worse in school. If you tell children that food is healthy, they may assume that anything healthy will taste bad and reject it. Allowing babies to cry and show their emotions is important for their emotional development. Children are not lazy and there is often a reason why they cannot achieve what is asked of them. This phrase usually doesn't get anything done faster except make the kids feel more stressed. This phrase invalidates your child's feelings and dismisses them, making your child feel like you are not hearing them. Children should not be expected to act like adults because they are not adults. Authoritarian parents are more likely to raise disrespectful, delinquent children who do not see them as legitimate authorities than parents who listen to their children and gain their respect and trust. Threatening to kick your child out of the house can be emotionally damaging and usually does not result in positive behavior change. Comparing a child to a parent can create a divide where the child must identify or choose a side to please a particular parent. Bragging about being right never benefits children. Every child has strengths and challenges that are unique to them and should not be compared to others. Expecting perfection can damage a child's self-esteem and make them less likely to take risks and try new things out of fear of failure. Although this phrase seems like a nice compliment, it teaches children that they have a natural gift that is separate from hard work and can lead them to avoid situations where they are not sure they will succeed. Calling a child a derogatory name can negatively affect his mood, self-esteem, confidence and relationship with his parents. Parents' attitudes can affect a child's academic performance. Hiding negative emotions and pretending to be positive can damage your relationship with your child and make them feel like they can't express their own emotions. The words we say to our children matter, and paying attention to our language can help us be better parents. It is important to encourage, support and value our children's emotions and efforts. It is also important to avoid harmful phrases and habits that can negatively affect their emotional and psychological well-being.1. "That's not how it's done. Let me show you.”
2. “What's wrong with you?”
3. "Exercise is the work of a master."
4. "You can be whatever you want to be."
5. "Then I'll leave you here."
6. “I do everything for you.”
7. “A 4 is fine, but a 5 is a better score.”
8. "Eat peas, they are very healthy."
9. “Stop crying right now.”
10. “You're so lazy.”
11. "Hurry up, we're in a hurry."
12. “Big boys/girls are not afraid.”
13. “Don't be such a baby.”
14. "It will be as I say."
15. "You live under my roof, you follow my rules."
16. "You are just like your mother/father."
17. “I told you so.”
18. “I wish I was more like my sister/brother”
19 “You are my perfect little angel.”
20. “You're so smart.”
21. “You really are an idiot.”
22. "I hate math, I've never been good at it."
23. "Mommy is not crying, everything is fine."