Are you interested in what your partnership is like? Does it satisfy you? Does it give you what you want? Do they have a future together? Ask yourself and answer the questions honestly!
Therapist Jianny Adamo has compiled 25 questions that can reveal the true state of your relationship.
The questions are divided into five basic categories that are important for the future of any partner relationship - feelings, needs, communication, values and the future.
With the help of the questionnaire, you can evaluate and check what your partner relationship is like. The answers show you what your current feelings are towards your partner, whether your needs in the relationship are met, whether communication is good, whether you share the same life values and whether you have a common vision for the future.
If you may be at a crossroads and may be questioning your relationship, don't hesitate to answer these questions. Honestly, no money in your pocket!
Feelings
1. When we are together do I feel good and happy or sad, confused and disappointed?
2. Do I respect it as it is or do I want to change it?
3. Does he respect me or does he not care about my feelings?
4. Is he a good influence in my life or do I feel he is taking advantage of me?
5. When I share my thoughts, feelings and concerns with him, does he listen and respond with empathy or does he not listen to me at all?
Needs
6. Is the relationship equally important to both of you?
7. Are we always available for each other or do I have to chase him every time I need him
8. Is there balance in our relationship or am I the one maintaining the relationship?
9. Are my needs as important to him as his, or is he ignoring me?
10. Does one bring out the best in the other, or do I feel like a parent who has to take care of him all the time?
Do we have similar views on life? Photo: Jonathan Borba / UnsplashCommunication
11. Do I enjoy our conversations?
12. Does he understand me and listen to what I say?
13. Do I believe his words or does he feel manipulated?
14. Does he consider my views on the world when our opinions differ, or does he undermine me?
15. Can I easily say no to him or is my no never considered and respected?
Values
16. Do we have similar views on the world and similar values?
17. Do I remain true to my views or have I neglected them?
18. Does our way of life match?
19. Is he financially responsible and does he have plans for the future or does he live day by day?
20. Do we value honesty, openness and commitment in the same way in a relationship?
Future
21. Does he include me in his plans, vacations, and family gatherings, or does he hide me?
22. Is he always clear when it comes to what he wants out of life, or does he avoid such conversations?
23. Have I honestly explained to him what I expect from the relationship and what I need to feel happy?
24. Can he offer me all this?
25. Is my happiness important to him and does he see us in the future or am I the only one interested in a long-term life together and happiness?
