Have you ever wondered why you are in a relationship? Why do you persist even though your inner voice tells you otherwise? Check the three key causes and take action if you see yourself in them. There is only one life!
Is it love or just a habit? This question should be asked by everyone who has found themselves in a bad relationship.
- Those who, in the name of love, justify all the bad behavior that happens to them in a relationship.
- Those who forget the simple fact that love doesn't hurt and that if you find yourself in a relationship where you feel unhappy, you should just end it.
However, what often happens is that people never leave. They stay, as we have already mentioned, in the name of love.
What are the reasons they remain in a bad relationship.
1. They lack self-confidence
Their expectations about the quality of a love relationship are related to the way they experience themselves. People with low self-esteem think they are less worthy than their partner, have lower expectations and set low standards. They lack self-confidence and are satisfied with a relationship that in reality is anything but satisfactory.
2. They fear loneliness, as well as new relationships
The longer they are in a relationship, the harder it is to end it. Fear of being alone is a common reason people don't want to end a bad relationship. A thousand questions arise in their head. Will I still find someone to love me? Will I spend the rest of my life alone?
They become accustomed to the presence of another person in their lives, and this very habit is the reason why they may never leave.
They are afraid that they will go from a bad relationship to an even worse one. Will they even be able to trust anyone? People with low self-esteem dread the very thought of starting a new relationship because they know it will be difficult for them to trust a potential new partner.
3. They don't realize that someone is emotionally manipulating them
The moment the other party realizes that they want to end the relationship, they will start manipulating them. They will find different reasons, from love, feelings of inferiority, to threats to stay with them. And as we wrote at the beginning, they stay in the name of love and the feeling that no one else will ever love them.
Love is the creation of compromises, it is a mutual desire for a good relationship in which both are equal and happy partners. If your partner is manipulating you, don't be afraid to walk away. It's still better to be happy without him than unhappy with him.
