Life is made up of loving relationships that push us to expand our horizons and help us grow. All relationships play a role in our understanding of life and the development of our character, but some relationships are more special than others.
There are many different types of relationships we can have in life, but there are also relationships that are absolutely necessary for our journey on this planet.
Here are the three types of people we need to find in life.
Our soulmate
Our soulmate is a soul with whom we "clicked" on all levels. It is literally impossible to be uncomfortable with this man. Sometimes we can argue, but in the end we always work things out and that only strengthens our relationship.
We can be separated from this person for years, but when we meet again, we feel that nothing has changed, because we are connected on every possible level. When we meet, we can have a strange sense of intimacy, as if we decided to include this soul in our lives before birth.
Some believe that this strange feeling of intimacy often stems from the fact that we share past lives with this person and have decided to come into this life together as well.
Contrary to popular belief, your soul mate does not have to be of the opposite sex, nor does it have to be your life partner. It could be our mother, brother, sister or best friend. Every person meets their soulmate at some point in their life. If you haven't found it yet, expect it to happen in the future.
Our mirror
Our mirror is a person who is direct with us. She is honest with us, she doesn't care if she hurts us in the process. The fact that she doesn't care about our feelings allows her to make an impression on us that will bring us transformation.
We're not talking rudeness here. We are talking about a friend who will tell us when we are not on the right track or when we are not behaving as we should. It often happens that we have the same role in this person's life and because of this we act as a mirror to each other and reflect areas that need to be worked on.
We may argue more often than necessary, but beneath those arguments lies a real concern that cannot be shaken. Sometimes we all need someone to wake us up when we stop being responsible.
Our protector
Our protector is our mentor, teacher and guide. It gives us inspiration, encouragement and feedback about our lives. He guides us and helps us in difficult situations. For some people, their protector may be in the form of a family member, while for others it may be a teacher or coach.
For some it is someone who is no longer alive, such as Jesus, Krishna, Buddha, ... It is important to have someone we can turn to when we are having a hard time, someone who will always be able to encourage us and offer us instructions on paths.
Some believe that as we dive deeper into our journey, our protector becomes less personal. At first it may appear as a family member or friend, but then, when we understand its universality and connection with everything, our protectors will become the Moon, Earth and nature spirits. Instead of looking to the teacher for answers, we will look directly to the source for answers.
These are three archetypal figures that we will all benefit from in our lives.
If you are lucky enough to have them, fight for them and respect them. If you have not yet met them, continue your own development and the universe will send them to you when the time is right.
