There are many reasons why men cheat on their women, as well as why a woman is willing to become a mistress. You will always be another woman, because no matter how you turn, he will still be with her. With another, not with you.
No matter how many good excuses you make, how many lies you tell to justify your feelings for falling in love with a married man, nothing can change the fact that someone is cheating and someone is hurt.
Let's look at the excuses of a woman who is in a relationship with a married man:
"What his wife does not know cannot harm her."
This belief is far from reality. First, just because he doesn't know doesn't mean what he's doing is right.
Second, his wife may never find out, but she may find out today, given a combination of circumstances. And when she realizes that her husband is an adulterer, it will affect not only her, but also their children.
"It's a purely physical need, without emotions."
Most people who get involved in infidelity try to comfort themselves with these words. They have a false belief that everything will be relaxed, without obligations and expectations. And when it is over, they will end the relationship without complications.
It's not really like that. Namely, when you've been intimate with someone for so long, it's rare that at least one side doesn't develop some feelings.
"I'm over it, I don't want to be tied down."
Such thinking goes hand in hand with the previous one, that it is a purely physical need, without emotions. The fact is that many women find it difficult to stay with someone exclusively in a physical relationship, sooner or later an emotional connection appears, at least to some extent.
Although she was aware from the beginning that he was married and that he did not intend to leave his wife, the mistress could not be sure that she would not fall in love with him.
"He will leave his wife when he is ready."
This is a scenario that can often be seen, but rarely does a man actually leave his wife. In the end, it turns out he was never ready.
Those who cheat tell the women they want to be intimate with that they will leave their wife, that they are not happy with her. But in the end, it turns out that these words only served to keep her.
Adulterous men know what women want to hear and use that to get what they want.
"She is so mean to him that he would be better off without her."
A married man who is willing to cheat on his wife will say anything to convince his lover to stay with him as long as possible.
The most common statements in such a scenario are: my wife is terrible, we constantly fight, I can't stand her anymore...
The truth may be quite different, and he and his wife have a fairly happy marriage, she is wonderful and caring, and he simply cannot resist the temptation.
