Low self-esteem and feelings of insecurity are something that many of us have unfortunately experienced. At that time, it is important to find in ourselves the qualities and virtues that we love and try to find inspiration and motivation in other people instead of envy. This is also very important for our relationship: insecurity can cause its end.
These are 5 signs of insecurity that can destroy your relationship.
1. Don't be happy about your partner's achievements
A healthy relationship it's not a competition. They represent the partners the team and se achievements each other cheer up, and they stand by each other even when the future doesn't look so bright. Therefore, it is very important that your you recognize envy and find out where it might lie the cause for that feeling.
If you notice that with your partner's successes, you worry that you overshadowed, to get in touch with him you don't earn or you take his victories as your own defeat, it is important to stop. Such thinking can be expressed too quickly in relationship qualities, and the partner can also get the feeling that he don't stand by. So make sure you're a partner congratulated for his successes, and you will mark also their own.
It is important to celebrate the achievements of both Photo: Victoria Priessnitz / Unsplash2. You're jealous when he spends time with his friends
In a healthy relationship, it is important for each partner to maintain own identity. This is in addition to individual ones hobbies and interests also includes friends: therefore, do not deny your partner the time he would spend in company.
If you notice that every time your chosen one meets with loved ones, you are full jealousy, then it's time to look deep within yourself. If your partner has a reason to mistrust did not give, then it is most likely your own uncertainty and fear, to find someone who is "better" than you. Faith in your partner is key to a healthy relationship and a relationship where partners support each other allow to "breathe", is much stronger than a relationship full of rules and restrictions. Therefore, be happy that your partner is having a good time, while you take care of your own during this time hobbies or chat with yours friends.
3. You feel that his love is not enough
If deep down you think yes you are not worthy of love or your past is full toxic relationships, you may think that we are partners love is not enough. Thinking about his words like that you won't believe it, you will worry that his gestures come from ulterior motives and you will constantly put him in situations where he will have to show his love to prove.
You should know that none of this will be your relationship fortress– quite the opposite. Therefore, instead of acting like this, look at the situation from realistic angle and calm down in this way: if there is a reason to fall in love with your partner doubts, it isn't, then you don't need it at all to analyze.
Do you feel like your partner doesn't love you enough? Photo: Molnar Baint / Unsplash4. Every moment without your partner fills you with dread
Watch how you behave when your partner he is not with you. Do you start your own with enthusiasm activities, errands and challenges or nervous checking your phone and se you ask, why hasn't he messaged you yet? If you found yourself in the second option, then it's time to behave this way change it.
It is perfectly normal that they are not together every second of the day and also if your partner a few hours don't answer, that doesn't really mean anything. It's probably simple employed, which in no way means that he no longer feels love for you.
5. You are tempted to end the relationship
Insecurity can also lead to having a relationship for no real reason let's conclude. We are constantly on the lookout for evidence, that our partner does not love us as much as we love him, and as soon as we find a sliver of uncertainty, we are ready run away. However, you can in this way we destroy something wonderful and later we find out that we are reacted too quickly.
You should be aware that in a healthy relationship there is a majority challenges through open communication overcome. It is normal for them to also meet with misunderstandings, so don't let them scare you, but give them to you motivation, to strengthen the relationship.
