Wondering if this person is the one? Will you spend the rest of your life with her? Although you want it, doubts arise in you. Is he/she really the right person?
The idea of a perfect relationship is different for each person because we all have different values. However, there are some key points that are essential to a successful relationship, regardless of the value system.
When do you know he/she is not the right person for you? If any of the points are a constant in your relationship, think about it, maybe the person you are with is not right for you!
You never know when you will be together again
The rhythm of life can sometimes be relentless, but still not so much that you don't know a few days in advance when you might see the person you like. If your partner cheats on you and never makes it clear when you'll see each other next, that's not a relationship you want. This person is not the right partner for you.
Stress will become your constant if your partner constantly burdens you with calls, messages... Photo: Elisa Ventur / UnsplashHe expects you to always be available
Mature people know that it is not always possible to be on the phone. You can't work and constantly answer the phone. No one can expect you to respond to their messages immediately. Healthy communication leads to successful relationships.
He is constantly looking for support
If the person you're with is too dependent on you, that's not healthy. Of course, giving support is essential, but if you or your partner are constantly looking for support from each other for every little thing, you have a problem. No one wants to be dramatized. Everyone has a busy life and can't always focus on what the other partner is doing. You have to let yourself breathe in life, this also includes different interests.
Trust is the key to a happy partnership. Photo: Sandro Crepulja / PexelsThere is not enough trust between you
If you are insecure about your relationship or always doubt your partner, your relationship is not healthy and will not last long. You have to trust yourself. Trust your judgment so that your partner will not disappoint you. A serious relationship does not work in the long term without trust.
You can't trust him with your fears
Honesty is one of the most important qualities of any successful relationship, even a non-romantic one. You should be able to express whatever you feel, even if it makes you uncomfortable.
A relationship can be good if there is a strong emotional connection, effort, and real commitment to make you and your partner feel safe and valued. Without these key qualities, there is no successful relationship.
Every relationship takes effort. And as long as both of you are willing to invest in the relationship, you will overcome all difficulties together.
