Regardless of whether you or he left, or whether the decision to break up was mutual, the end of a relationship is always difficult. And sometimes it's even harder to start over, with a new person, because we're afraid of the situation happening again. But love is too beautiful to avoid for the rest of your life, so the worst thing you can do is to let a bad experience turn you away from it. However, be careful and don't jump into a new relationship too quickly. Here are 5 signs that will show you whether you are ready for a new relationship.
1. You broke off contact with your ex
It sounds logical that with ex-partners more we are not in contact, when we get into new relationships, and yet we often violate this very thing. If you are with someone who should got over it, still you hear and you are getting, this is definitely not a good sign. You have to make a conscious decision to do it directed to the future, which means that you will have to leave him behind.
In rare cases, there is a chance for them to remain friends, but usually the continuation of the relationship only leads to unnecessary drama. It's different, of course, if you have children, then just be careful that your relationship doesn't last romantic.
2. You got rid of emotional baggage
No one is without faults and everyone carries a certain share with them emotional baggage from past relationships. However, it is still up to you to ensure that this proportion is as small as possible. If you don't do this, you can inadvertently you are sabotaging a new relationship.
Remember that everyone is a person unique and that you had an unpleasant experience with someone does not mean, that will be the situation repeated with someone else. She also finds out for herself whether she would be suitable for a potential boyfriend to trust and not immediately think the worst. Right lack of trust it is the one that causes many relationships to break up.
3. You cleared up what went wrong
Every life situation, even as unpleasant as a breakup, is an opportunity to let's learn something new. If nothing else, now you know what your partner really is you don't want to and what kind of men you will marry avoided.
But it is important that you are also honest with herself. Was there anything in your past relationship that you could have done better? Remember, the goal is to you are progressing and not to put yourself in a bad mood. If you find that you are not the best at communicating or that you give up too quickly, then being single is the perfect opportunity to work on these things you work. That way, you won't repeat the mistakes in the next relationship.
4. You are also happy single
One of the most common mistakes we can make is to jump into a new relationship hoping to find someone who will made me happy. This is wrong for two reasons: the first is that the path from joy to total depression is extremely short if your happiness is dependent on only one person. Also not fair, that you expect someone to change your life for the better. You have to take such a step yourself and find happiness within yourself. Yes, of course your partner will make you happy, but it shouldn't be the only source of your joy.
So will you if you have yourself she likes and you don't need confirmations of others, you can easily let potential partners know exactly what you are you earn.
5. You feel genuine interest
Watch how you react when you meet new people. Do you feel genuine curiosity and interest, when you think you've hit it off with someone? Or just you wait, so that the conversation passes and no questions at all you don't put? If you found yourself more in the second sentence, yes don't stress. It's normal to need a breakup fixed-term, to collect energy and startup for new ventures. The worst thing is to get into a new relationship just because you feel you have to or you're bored.
But if you feel it while flirting and getting to know each other enthusiasm and the desire to be about a person learned more, this means that you can continue the relationship without any worries. You can also congratulate yourself, because getting over someone and starting over is not the easiest thing.
