It's no secret that we can't control our emotions and that sometimes we like someone when we least expect it. If you found yourself in a situation where you felt emotions around your friend's ex-partner, it can be very unpleasant, and you have a difficult decision to make. We have prepared for you 5 tips on what to do if you start to like your friend's ex.
1. Think carefully about how you will act
You should be aware that you can extremely your friend affects, if you drop in relationship with her ex-partner. It might even make her feel better released and be with you stopped dating. That's why it's important to make your options first you consider. It can help you decide if you think about whether your friend still has feelings for you romantic feelings, or her ex-partner hurt, or with him in friendly relations and it's a relationship completely recovered.
It is also important that rate it, what a good crush indeed you know and what about her you feel: it's just about blind love, or you think you have found in it the right one?
Think carefully about your decision Photo: Karolina Grabowska / Pexels2. Be honest with your friend
Lying your friend may seem like you at first glance tempting, but you should be aware that your secret will be out sooner rather than later came to light and that she will be even more of a friend hurt, if she realizes that you are a relationship in front of her hid.
Therefore, we suggest to deal with her first talk to yourself and the situation and his feelings to her explain. At that take note, that what you tell her can affects, and that her reaction might not be what you'd like wanted. If your friend tells you that she needs some time, to think the situation over or that he needs a break from hanging out with you, that accept and don't start arguing.
3. Don't tell your girlfriend about your partner
At best, your friend will let you know that she has an ex got over it and that he wants friendship with you to continue. Then you might find it tempting to share with her problems, which you face in a relationship, or you start to explain to her how much you are into your partner in love.
However, we still advise you caution: the friend will probably not be the best pleasant to hear about their own ex-partner, especially if the time she spent with him is not in best memory.
Don't tell your girlfriend about your crush Photo: Edmond Dantès / Pexels4. Trust your partner and friend
If your new partner and friend are still in friendly relations, try your own to calm jealousy. Instead of trying to prevent communication and thus the relationship with the friend worsen, rather focus on advantages such situations.
In many cases, a relationship with a friend's ex-partner can cause the end of your friendship and you can be grateful, that this did not happen. Therefore, to a friend and partner, if for jealousy you have no real reason trust.
5. Don't ask your girlfriend about her ex-relationship
You may be tempted to make a friend asked, what is in her relationship went wrong and thus avoid the same I make mistakes. However, we suggest that it is a thing of the past you don't remember and to realize that new relationships from old ones they differ and that you will solve any problems much easier with by talking to your partner, as by discussing with his ex-girlfriends.
