We all want people to be kind and fair to us, but we often have no influence on the behavior of others. It must have happened to you that someone - be it a friend, a family member or a stranger - said something rude to you. And because sometimes it is hard not to take such statements to heart, we have prepared 5 ways for you to react to them and make sure that they do not hurt you.
1. Don't take rudeness personally
The biggest a favor you will do to yourself if in life personally you are looking at as little as possible things and events. You have to understand that people are dealing with own problems, which sometimes they bring, to take their anger out on someone who doesn't even care about it he doesn't deserve it. That, of course it's not an excuse for such behavior, but it can help you to look at the situation from other perspectives.
Remember that you are rude you don't earn from absolutely no one and if someone behaves improperly towards you, that it reflects only him. Rude words do not mean that there is something wrong with you, but that the person who uttered them does not know to control their emotions and behavior.
Love yourself enough not to take rudeness personally Photo:Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels
2. Value your peace enough not to get angry
It is often difficult to keep, so that we don't react to rudeness with an outburst has already, but often this situation only adds to it worsens. Therefore, it is very important that your peace appreciate enough, yes do not allow malicious remarks to distract him. This does not mean that you have to passively tolerate rudeness, but that you simply do not allow it to happen influenced to yours mood.
3. Solve the situation by talking
If the person who uttered rude words against you is considered one of yours the closest, then it is imperative to be about the situation talk. Try to look at her from as far as possible realistic perspectives: the person tempted you hurt or maybe not at all he doesn't realize, that her words are yours it hurt?
In any case, it is best to approach the situation calmly, however assertive. Let the person know how you feel about their words felt and her on nice way explain that you will not tolerate such behavior. Everyone has said something they regret at some point, so there's no reason not to give a relationship a try resolve. But you should be aware that such behavior should not become constant.
Everyone speaks too quickly at some point, so try to defuse the situation by talking Photo: John Diez / Pexels4. Respond with humor
This approach works best if you are in to society and someone suddenly says something rude or makes a joke about you. If you react with humor, you will make sure that mood it doesn't make the whole group worse, and you'll also let the person know that their words hurt you they didn't touch. It's also a fact that people are usually rude because they don't feel good about themselves, and it's humor that can bring lighter mood.
If it's your friend, you can alone with him talk later. This way you will let him know that you did not like his words suitable.
5. Stand up for yourself
If you noticed that someone was already several times rude to you, you should know that such behavior not allowed and that sometimes there is no other option than to set for yourself. This doesn't mean that you have to be rude either - resolve the situation confidently, but without offensive words.
A person warn to her behavior and ask her to be with him ceases. By keeping kindness and calmness, you will also give her opportunity, to be apologize and your behavior fix it.
