Is he only with you for sex?
Sex is not just an intimate activity, it is about respecting each other.
When you feel that everything between you is not as it should be or as you want it to be, it is time to end your intimate connection.
1. If he only cares about your body and you fall in love with him
Get over it and prepare for disappointment, because you don't want to continue sleeping with someone who has made it clear to you that they are only interested in a casual relationship. Don't hope that he will change his mind because he was honest with you. He's told you what he wants—and it's not what you want. If he ends up breaking your heart, he probably won't take responsibility for it. He will look at you in amazement, because you should have known that from the very beginning, because he was open with you.
2. If he only cares about his own satisfaction and ignores yours
Sex should be exciting for both of you and him. If his activity is over in a second and he never makes an effort to get you to your destination too, then stop sleeping with him. Your partner is supposed to care about your satisfaction. Not alone. You should enjoy it. If he is the only one who benefits from intimacy, you don't need him, because you can give yourself greater pleasure.
3. You're not the most interested in sleeping with him
If there is no excitement, then it is better not to be intimate with him. You should not feel as if you are being forced into intimacy with him. You owe him nothing. You don't have to sleep with him just because he invited you to dinner or surprised you with jewelry. Don't allow yourself to go with him just out of guilt or to get what he wants. You have complete control over your body. If you don't want to sleep with him, decline the offer.
4. If you're doing it for the wrong reasons
You should sleep with him because you are excited to touch and kiss him. Not because you're hoping that having sex will save your relationship. Not because you think he'll go away if you reject him. Not because you feel like you have to repay him for all the nice things he's done for you. Not because you want to manipulate him into doing something else nice for you. Not because it's routine and you feel like it's expected of you.
5. If you feel uncomfortable around him
Sex is an intimate thing. You want a partner who will respect your body and boundaries. If you feel like your partner is constantly pushing you to try activities that make you uncomfortable, or if your partner ignores you when you say no, then you shouldn't sleep with them. It doesn't deserve your inflows.
6. If sex is the only good thing in a relationship
You deserve a partner who fulfills you emotionally and sexually. Don't settle for less than what you want. Although you may miss sleeping with them at first, you can find everything you want in a new partner, one who meets all your expectations and respects you.
