"True love is like a ghost that everyone talks about but few have seen." - Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Are you looking for true love, hoping to find that one person who will make your imperfect life perfect? You are fooling yourself when you think that true love can only come from others, rarely does anyone think about the love that is within you.
True love can only be found through love. Love goes where love is. The more love you have in your heart, the more love you will attract to you. Love cannot and will not go to those who have an empty heart. True love comes from within. It starts with you. Abundance comes to you when there is abundance in your heart. It flows through you and ends in you.
Read 6 things you need to know about true love!
1. Self-love is the best way to attract true love
Love each other with all your heart, for who you are and for what you are not. Be good to yourself and the world will be good to you. If you don't have love for yourself, you can't expect to get it from anyone else. And even if you do get it, it won't last long. It doesn't work that way. Love comes in abundance to those who have it in abundance in their hearts.
2. True love is not about looking for perfection in others
You are already whole and complete, and the more you learn to love and accept yourself, the more you will know that this is true. You really don't need another person to complete you, to perfect you. You just need someone to share your imperfection with. True love is not about looking for perfection in another person, but about fully sharing your imperfect perfection with them and growing together every day.
3. The love of your life is you
Why look outside yourself for something that is already inside you? True love starts with you. The love of your life is none other than you. All the love you need and want lies within you. In you, around you. The love you receive from others will be nothing but a projection of the love that is present within you.
4. There is no need to fight for true love
You often hear people say: "If you really love someone, you have to fight for them." If you have to fight for someone, for their love, that kind of love is not worth loving. This is not the right thing. This is not love. "Fighting" and "loving" are two opposite things and you can only have one without the other.
5. True love requires no effort
True love is simple. It flows and comes naturally. Where there is true love, there is no need to control, no need to fix the other person, no need for criticism, judgment, jealousy, guilt, or any other toxic behavior. Love is love, and that's all there is to it.
6. True love is unconditional
Love must do what love does best: love and be loved. Love makes no demands. Love has no interest in holding on to something or someone. Where there is love, there is no hesitation and no bond, and where there is bond, there is no love. These two cannot coexist.
"True love comes not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see the imperfect person as perfect." – Jason Jordan
