Taking the first step is not easy for anyone. However, you'll never know if your crush likes you back if you don't try. Here are 6 tips on how to ask someone out on a first date.
1. Before you ask a question, ask about the person
It is best to step into any situation well prepared and the same goes for asking someone out on a date. To avoid unnecessary discomfort, it is a good idea to inquire first if the person is single. This is easiest to find out if you have mutual friends or colleagues. Also, it's always good to ask friends opinion about your crush's interest, but don't take their word for granted - many people do shy and he will not clearly show interest in you, even if he feels it.
2. Avoid the word date
The word date means a lot to many people pressure and calls out to him discomfort. We recommend that you instead invite the chosen one to coffee or lunch, or simply mention during the conversation: "I really enjoy our conversations and would like to know more about you. Do you have time tomorrow?”
3. Be assertive but not aggressive
Self-confidence she is extremely attractive. It's understandable that you are nervous, but try to give an impression relaxation and confidence in yourself. At the same time, be careful that your approach and words do not fall out aggressively. You mustn't forget to listen and let the conversation flow naturally.
4. Be clear
Yes, the word date is best avoided. However, you still need to give to your chosen one sign, that you have no desire only for friendship. The easiest way to do this is with with a smile and a little flirting. Also, make it clear that you want to hang out in two and not in the company of your friends.
5. Do it alone
Asking someone out in front of a group of co-workers or mutual friends can get them into an unpleasant situation, but it's easy for you awkward, if he rejects you. Remember: there is no in rejection nothing shameful, but it is much easier to accept it in person than in front of people. It's best to find the moment when you and your crush are alone, or simply tell him that you have to to say something and walk together somewhere where you can make the invitation without an audience.
6. Don't pour out all your emotions
Many people do fall in love very quickly and is too soon convinced that he has found the chosen one of his heart. There is nothing wrong with this in principle, but be careful careful, because the too quick outpouring of emotions can many frighten. Again: make an impression relaxation and good mood. If you notice that your crush is hesitating, it's best to smile and say, "If not, no problem," or something similar. This kind of behavior is best especially in the case when two colleagues or a friend, because that's how you'll avoid it discomfort, the next time you see each other.
