Most of us have at least one person in our lives that we just couldn't forget. However, sometimes you have to accept that some stories don't end the way you want them to. That's when you have to focus on loving yourself and believing that the future has something much better planned for you. But how do you know if you really got over it?
It's easy to say you've forgotten him. But to actually think that, not only when you're surrounded by friends, but even in the evenings, before you fall asleep yourself, is something else entirely. Getting over it can be a difficult and time-consuming process, so don't worry if you're not quite where you want to be yet. Instead, remember that you are capable to love so hard and deeply, one of the most beautiful features, which a person can have and that the right one will be able to appreciate it.
Here are 7 signs that will show you that you are finally over it.
1. You stop checking his social media profiles
Check on social networks, what's new with your ex-partner, may seem like a tempting idea. However, it definitely does not help the process of getting over it, because you will only keep it in your mind for longer. When you find out that wishes to visit his profile you no longer feel it, it is a sign that he is finally forgotten in your heart.
Photo: Mateus Campos Felipe / Unsplash2. You no longer need to clean things up
We often think that we will feel inner peace only when we are with a person clear to the end, why did the relationship turn out the way it did, as it is. Yes, with some it is possible, and it actually makes us feel better. But sometimes we must accept, that person for such conversations she is not mature enough or he just doesn't have the desire after such termination. Then we have to go back instead look into the future and make a conscious decision, that we will clear up only with ourselves and that this will be enough. If you have already done this, you can congratulate yourself - the past is finally safe for you.
3. You are no longer nervous at the prospect of seeing him
Even if your relationship lasted a long time, you most likely have quite a few mutual friends. Also, our country is among the smaller ones, which increases the possibility for random encounters. Even in the initial stages of recovery, it is normal to feel anxiety at the thought, that they might see each other.
But if you noticed that you don't care about it and are only focused on that, yes you enjoy life without nervousness, who you might run into, it's a sign that you're not thinking about him anymore.
4. When you are alone, you don't think about him anymore
The real "test" of overcoming occurs in moments, when you are alone after a long day. Many of us remember the times when we spent those moments with the one we loved the most and feel the need to be close to him. And just then it did you have to have a favorite and get organized evening routine, which calms you down and fills you with satisfaction, so be it a cup of cocoa, listening to favorite songs, a hot bath or a conversation with a friend. If you notice that you no longer feel any need for your ex-partner, congratulations. This means that you are on a very good path.
Photo: Caroline Veronez/Unsplash5. You enjoy moments when you are alone
You are most likely not alone in the evening, but also at other times of the day. After the end of the relationship, many of us surrounded by loved ones, because that's the easiest way let's get distracted. There is nothing wrong with this, of course, as it is certainly one of the ways to take your mind off the heartache, but it is just as important that you learn to be yourself. Don't be afraid of loneliness, instead enjoy the time for developing new hobbies and revival of the ancients. Time for that, yes you find out, what really makes you happy and what do you want in the future.
5. You feel a sincere interest in others
After a tough finish, it can be tempting to think about looking for new love. But be careful: if your thoughts are still filled with your previous partner, maybe it's not the right time. You all are we deserve someone, who will appreciate us and not only had it as a replacement and a way to forget his sorrow. However, if your interest is sincere and your desire for someone new is not fueled by missing your ex, it means that the time is right for love, and that your recovery has been successful.
Photo: Courtney Cook/Unsplash6. You cherish the memories, but you don't want to go back to them
Do you ever remember the good times they spent together? Don't worry, this is completely normal and doesn't mean you haven't gotten over it after all. There's nothing wrong with knowing cherish the past, but be careful. Do you feel the urge to go back to the person and try again? If you can answer no without thinking, congratulations again. You finally got over it.
