In 2024, make room for those who truly love you. Say goodbye to the others. Cut them out of your life.
In addition to plans and New Year's resolutions, which we usually deal with towards the end of the year, we also devote ourselves to the people who are in our caused a bad mood last year and which we must eliminate from our lives in 2024.
The end of the year is approaching, the period when we usually take stock of ourselves let's set goals for the next 12 months. We evaluate our achievements, examine what we have achieved and think about how we could do things better or differently.
We are mostly focused on the things we want to achieve. Now let's also focus a little on relationships with people and think about how we felt in the past year and how we would like to experienced the year 2024.
Relationships with people are infinitely complex and nuanced, even when it comes to superficial acquaintances. The people we meet and interact with can nurture support or encourage partners on their way to success. It can also happen that we are surrounded by some people who tire us, belittle us and they question our worth.
In the coming period, make a decision and say goodbye to those people who hurt you.
Say goodbye to jealous people. Photo: Thomas Wolter/Pixabay7 types of people you should eliminate from your life in 2024.
The ones that make you feel insignificant
Cut out people who make you feel small and insignificant. People who encourage your doubts. Say goodbye to those who would rather see you stay in the same place than help you move forward. Cut out people who burden you with doubts about your abilities and undermine your confidence.
Those who do not forgive
Cut out people who can't or won't forgive. Those who resent you or blame you for mistakes years later, despite your apologies and efforts to make amends. Say goodbye to negative people who won't give you a second chance but are ready to endlessly remind you of your mistakes.
Let the sadness go. Photo: Pkozera / PixabayPossessive people
Cut out people who expect you to do your best just for them. The ones who get annoyed when you have hobbies or friends that aren't related to them. Say goodbye to people who want to be the center of your universe and resent you for having interests that don't include them.
People who want to change you
Cut out people who pressure you to change essential parts of yourself. You don't need those who think they know better than you and should make decisions for you. Say goodbye to anyone who doesn't respect you, your opinions and your values.
People who challenge and diminish your emotions
Weed out people who see your vulnerability as weakness. The ones who minimize your emotions and encourage you to stay silent, and would rather see you obediently follow everything they say. Say goodbye to all those who keep telling you to get stronger. From those who think you are too emotional or too outspoken.
This is the best for you. Breathe freely. Photo: Contractors / PixabayPeople who are jealous and envious of you
How do you know if someone is jealous of you? It's easy! If you constantly feel like you have to diminish your accomplishments and successes in their presence, know that they envy you. Cut out people who try to diminish your hard work. Those who think you don't deserve the achievements you've worked for. People who make you feel bad about things that originally made you proud.
People who don't respect your boundaries and wear you down
Cut out people who drain you emotionally. In 2024, forget about all those who make you feel exhausted after even the slightest association with them. People who are always dealing with drama and trying to bring you down to their level. And most importantly: say goodbye to people who cross your borders. The ones who don't care about your feelings as long as it suits them. People who think only of themselves all the time, even when you need them the most.
