Sometimes we put up barriers for ourselves and try to sabotage ourselves. Considering that life itself is complicated enough, this is really unnecessary. It is true, however, that many times we are not even aware of self-sabotage. Here you can read a list of obstacles that you put in front of you in your 20s. You may be able to avoid them more easily.
These are the 8 obstacles you put in front of you in your 20s.
Sleeping late in the morning
We all need a little more sleep from time to time. During the student period, it quickly happens that we get a beauty sleep every day until 10, 11 or even 12 o'clock. This takes away a lot of our productive hours.
Excessive adherence to beauty guidelines
Some characteristics of the sensitive period of adolescence extend into the 20s. At that time, many people are still very concerned about their appearance, clothes, the image they have on social networks, their body... Exaggerating the observance of beauty guidelines only leads to constant dissatisfaction.
Congestion
There are periods in life that require all of our energy. But don't let your whole life become this period. A career is important, but it's still important to stop sometimes and take time for small pleasures.
Putting things off until tomorrow
What you can do today, put it off until tomorrow. Do you know this "river"? Unfortunately, nobody has these "tomorrows" in unlimited supply. Do you want to travel to India? Start your own business? Move away from your parents? Set a realistic timeline if your finances and time allow. Otherwise, it may happen that you will not fulfill many of your plans or dreams.
You compare yourself too much to others
Consumerism requires constant social comparison and dissatisfaction with oneself - this is the only way we manage to sell many products. However, it also makes us very unhappy.
Obsession with phone and computer
Of course, phones and other technology are an inevitable and useful part of our lives. Here and there, it's wise to limit yourself a bit, otherwise we'll just be looking at screens all our lives.
Clinging to toxic people
People who are toxic to you cause a lot of problems for you. Don't cling to them at all.
Impatience with yourself
No one became the best version of themselves overnight. Career, personal growth, good relationships, values, social network - all this requires a lot of time and energy input. So avoid being impatient with yourself. Rome wasn't built in a day either.
