One of the more sensitive topics in relationships and marriages is that which concerns ex-partners. These are conversations that are not easy. While on the one hand we want to leave the past behind us, on the other hand we still want to know and verify some information. Of course, this does not mean that you have to ask your partner about all, even the smallest details of his past.
It is important that you know the questions that you or your partner are asking to answer them as well. These questions can be important because they can help you get to know your partner better, to learn about different behavioral patterns, both good and bad, that occur in your relationship.
Photo: envatoWhat can you ask your partner about past relationships
That is 9 nine questions , which, according to the therapist, you can ask your partner about past relationships. Before asking them, judge whether you are a person who wants to know the answers to them.
– How did the last relationship end?
– How did you contribute to the problems and the end of the relationship?
– What things did your ex-partner complain about the most?
– What patterns repeat themselves in your relationships?
– What did you like most about your ex-partner?
– With which ex-partner did you have the easiest time talking about difficult topics and why?
– Are you most often abandoned or the one who leaves?
– Am I similar to your ex or am I (completely) different?
– Do you want to be friends with your ex or not?
