How to conquer a man who does not want to commit? Just one word will make him think!
How to preserve balance between the emotions boiling inside you and the uncertain future? How to conquer a man, who does not want to surrender for life?
Entering a relationship full of emotional swings and shared moments is like an adventure that opens the door to unknown feelings and expectations. Everything is going smoothly until you suddenly find yourself in a moment when the man with whom you share these intimate moments expresses his unwillingness for a long-term relationship.
Reason? Lack of a sense of security in a serious relationship.
If you have ever found yourself in this situation, then you probably understand how it can cause frustration and confusion. Wondering if you've invested your time and emotions in a relationship, only to hear that the man is thinking of breaking up? No way. This can lead to disappointment and feelings of helplessness and dissatisfaction.
Your first reaction might be to get into an argument with him and try to explain to him that these reasons for breaking up are not strong enough.
Keep calm!
Instead of telling him why he is wrong, try using a simple but very effective tool - just one word.
Use only the word “I understand.”
Whenever you hear a statement that you may find unconvincing or even ridiculous, respond with the word "I understand" and then be quiet. After a short pause in the conversation, the man is likely to continue with more trivial reasons that could irritate you and started a fight.
Instead of getting into an argument or trying to convince him that he is wrong, simply repeat the word - I understand. This will clearly show him that you are willing to listen to his reasons without going into conflict.
This simple action can create space for open dialogue and allow him to share his true feelings and concerns. At the same time, you avoid unnecessary conflict and maintain communication in a more constructive way.
It is important to know that the word "I understand" does not necessarily mean that you agree with his reasons or decision, it simply shows that you are willing to listen and understand his perspective. That's easy a useful step in building a bridge of understanding between you.
It is important to remain calm and collected, no matter how hard it is. Understanding, even when you disagree, can help maintain dignity and respect between the two of you, which is vital to whether you stay together or not.
It certainly is every situation is unique, therefore, the approach must be adapted according to the specific circumstances and dynamics of the relationship.
