"I'm selfish, impatient and a bit indecisive. I make mistakes out of control, it's hard to be with me. But if you can't be there for me when I'm at my worst, you certainly don't deserve me when I'm at my best." – Marilyn Monroe
A strong, self-sufficient woman knows his worth, appreciates and respects himself, so she will not tolerate these 14 things in a man.
EXCUSES
If you make excuses once or twice that something got in the way and you can't meet, she understands, but constant excuses are not acceptable to her. A strong woman accepts the apology, but also knows when she's had enough of dodging and walks away. She doesn't need a man who is good at excuses in her life.
BREAKING PROMISES
A strong woman will not accept cancellation at the last minute when she is ready to leave. If you cancel the date, you'd better repay her in a thousand ways, or she'll leave you. If you promise her something, do it.
DISRESPECT
What makes a strong woman so attractive? Self respect. She will never tolerate you talking to her in a disrespectful or belittling manner. If you do, she respects herself enough to leave. She doesn't need someone who treats her with disrespect.
SUPERVISION
A strong woman is independent, she doesn't need someone to control her. She has her own life and she will decide if you will be a part of her life or not. Don't tell her what she can and can't do. Don't tell her where she can and can't go. If you think you can tell her who to talk to, think twice. Because you can't control a strong woman.
LIES
A strong woman is honest. She will never let you wander in the dark, no matter what. She will tell you all the things to your face. He expects the same from you. If she catches you in a lie, she'll question whether she can trust you at all, and if not, she doesn't see any reason to build a relationship with you.
CHEATING
A strong woman will never tolerate cheating. If she catches you once, that's enough for her. If she finds out you're playing with her, it doesn't matter how you try to cover it up or justify it, she's done with you. In a relationship, he is looking for someone he can trust unconditionally.
WAITING
A strong woman knows the value of her time. She will not sit and wait for your call. She has the confidence to make any move she wants and won't bat an eye if you think it's okay or not. Don't text her three days late because she knows she's worth more and if you can't see that, you have nothing to look for in her life.
LACK OF SUPPORT
Strong women need support. When they decide to do something, they do more for it than the average person. And if you don't have her back, believe in her and motivate her, she doesn't need you in her life. She appreciates people who help her see things differently, from a different perspective. Those who show her that problems can be solved. No matter how confident she is, she'll be confused at times, and that's when she expects you to help her. Remind her that she is worthy and that she can learn from every mistake!
MANIPULATION
A strong woman does not respond to manipulation. So there's no point in even trying.
JEALOUSY
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. She doesn't want to waste time trying to convince you that she's all yours. She can't keep telling you that other men are just her friends and nothing more. She knows that the only way to overcome this is to build your self-esteem, to trust yourself and her - that's not something she can teach you. Confidence comes from something within you and not from the person next to you.
UNFRIENDLY
Unfriendliness is also a sign of insecurity. People are mean when they feel threatened. A strong woman will never choose someone like that. She will observe how you behave towards others, as this will show her what kind of person you are.
EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND TOXIC PEOPLE
A strong woman cannot stand being treated badly. If you shout or insult her, she will not forgive you. Anyone who puts themselves above others to make themselves feel better does not belong in her life.
NEGLECT
She expects you to give her your time and attention because she is willing to give you hers. If you decide to come down from your world back to earth and try to get back into her life, she'll think twice about welcoming you back.
CONDEMNATION
Even a strong woman is not perfect. Like everyone else, he makes mistakes. But she always apologizes for the mistake she made. She will never dwell on the past or let the past dictate the present. What was, was.
A strong woman doesn't need you. She learned that she doesn't need others. He wants you. She chose you. And if you are the right person for her, you will appreciate and respect that.
