This is a woman who knows her worth. One who is confident and doesn't expect you to fulfill her life because it is already fulfilled. You are just the icing on the cake. The icing on the cake.
Such a woman has standards. Standards from which he does not deviate. He wants you to fulfill them fully. She won't waste her time with someone who would complicate her life.
Let's see what those conditions are.
Jurisdiction
In a man, she wants him to know how to treat women. She expects him to be polite and understanding, but she knows that's a rare male ability. A woman who is aware of her own worth has experienced a lot of rudeness in response to her warmth, care and empathy. Because of this, he does not want to tolerate it in the relationship. He needs an understanding partner who knows his worth and for whom authority is a normal way of life.
Respect
She has already experienced intense love affairs in which there were many things, but there was a lack of respect. And she won't put up with that anymore, to anyone and in anything. If you don't give her the respect she deserves, it means you have no respect for yourself or for life. And that you have problems with yourself, problems that you have to solve yourself, she will not solve them for you.
Selflessness
This should be related to respect, but it often happens that the one showing respect is not selfless and sensitive enough to respond to the other person's needs. Respecting her feelings and her needs is a way to show her respect.
Attention
She doesn't expect you to text her all the time and doesn't try to control you. She does not require you to shower her with compliments and gifts. She is only asking you to pay attention to what is important to her, and that attention is actually - respect and selflessness. When you are together, pay attention to her by making a commitment to spending quality time together.
Kindness
This does not mean that you should be nice only to her, but that you should be a good, decent and kind person who treats her with care and sensitivity and also the whole world.
Honesty
Lying, as well as ignoring, undermines and destroys relationships. A confident woman is ready to hear any truth. If she asks an awkward question, it means she's ready to hear the answer, no matter how uncomfortable it is. If you try to protect her with a lie, you are insulting her ability to tell the truth, and if you want to protect yourself - don't do things that will make you lie to her, because sooner or later she will find out.
Vulnerability
Open vulnerability in front of another person is a sign of maturity and commitment to personal development. Only brave people are willing to be weak, show all their feelings and risk being hurt. She will show you her vulnerability and expect the same from you. These are the moments when you give each other support and comfort.
Humor
He appreciates humor as a very important element of a healthy relationship. Sometimes painful and sensitive ego issues are best solved with wit. Those who know how to joke at their own expense and laugh at their own stupidity are able to look at things from a broader perspective and not create drama where there is none.
Understanding
Everyone deserves understanding. When he tells you something about himself, don't interpret it your way, but take it as you are told. Listen to it, observe it, feel it and trust it.
Simple
He has had enough of difficult relationships and the hardships of life that come with emotional burdens. He wants lightness of feelings, love, intimacy. She wants you to make her life better and easier. If you don't know that, or if you bring darkness, fear, uncertainty, unreliability, irresponsibility into her life, she won't tolerate it for a minute.
Communication
The foundation of a healthy relationship is the ability to have a mature, honest dialogue. To listen and hear, to reconsider your opinion and consider the other person's opinion, to sometimes change your attitude because you realized it was wrong. When you argue in the spirit of communication, it is not an argument, but an attempt to understand.
