What are the messages sent by men who just want you for fun?
You can also learn a lot about a man by the content of the messages he sends you. If you often receive one of the following, think about it. Such a man is with you only temporarily.
"CAN I COME TO YOU?"
You had a busy, stressful day. All you want to do is relax in a warm bath full of fragrant bubbles and go to bed. And then you receive his message. It's late. You are tired. But he always has a habit of texting you late at night, but he really has no intention of reaching out to you. That's how he keeps you under control and "checks" what you're doing.
"Can I come to you?""ME ME ME"
He always talks about himself, never shows any real interest in you. You have the answer in the palm of your hand. He's not interested in you. He is too self-absorbed to think about anyone else. Go away.
"MY EX IS ..."
It's perfectly normal for him to talk about his ex every now and then, but if he's always bringing her up, even when you're talking about simple everyday things, walk away! It's clear that she's still on his mind and he can't stop thinking or talking about her. You will always be in second place. Do you want this?
"SORRY FOR THE LATE, I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY"
You are already tired of such messages and you are sick of receiving them. STOP, go away. No one can be too busy to send a short reply. When he avoids your messages with such unoriginal statements, it is clear that you are no longer on his mind.
"Sorry for the delay, I've been very busy.""WE CAN'T MEET TOMORROW, MAYBE ON THE WEEKEND"
You try to see him during the week, to go to lunch, to the cinema, for a drink, but he postpones the dates to the weekend. Always only then. Watch out, he seems to want to keep the week and weekends separate. But why?
"I COULD MEET SOMEDAY"
Such a message usually also contains smileys. It's like a man avoiding the cold truth that he has no intention of dating you. He probably spent more time sending you that message than he would have spent with you.
"We could meet sometime.""I LIKE THINGS AS THEY ARE"
On the one hand, this is a compliment. He likes the way things are going between you two, but honestly, he only said those words to calm you down. If he doesn't want to talk about the future, his views on your relationship, or only talks about what he wants from you and nothing else, he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship with you.
"YOU ARE SO HOT"
Such a compliment flatters you, especially since you made an effort to look beautiful on the date. But if he always compliments your looks and nothing else, he's obviously only focused on what you look like and not what kind of person you really are. This means that he does not want to create a stronger relationship with you, at least for now.
"You're so hot!"“TALK ABOUT THIS LATER”
Sometimes you really can't help it. You need to tell someone, right now. But the man procrastinates, avoids conversation, does not respond to messages. You only want to reveal your feelings to him or describe an event that happened to you during the day. But he doesn't care about that. If this is constantly happening, leave, you are not his priority! Someone who loves you will make time for you when you need someone on the other end of the phone.
"Would you like to see my carrot?"
A man who sends you a photo of his carrot tells you everything. You don't have to wonder if he wants a relationship with you or not, because he already said right away that he just wants to have fun. A man with serious intentions will not risk turning you off with such immature messages.
"Would you like to see my carrot?"DO NOT REPLY TO MESSAGES
If it often happens that you send him a simple message and he does not respond to it, this is a warning. How long does it take for him to reply to your message? There is no excuse for not responding for hours or even days. If you want someone, you always find time for them. If he doesn't write you off, you're not his priority. Go away! There are also men who avoid talking about anything serious or anything related to your relationship. His response to the message is usually something completely different from what you asked him.
Love yourself and don't waste your time on someone who wouldn't leave a stone unturned for you. Go away!
