It is true that the perception of partner relationships is no longer the same as it was a few decades ago, but it still seems that in modern society, marriage is still understood as the highest instance of a relationship. We all have to get married and if we don't, there is something wrong with our love in the eyes of most. All well and good, but perhaps it would be prudent to first consider whether the person is even ready to take this step. When do you even know that your partner is ready for marriage?