Partnerships have changed a bit, love has moved online, but men still make the first move. So many centuries have passed, but there is simply NO answer to how to approach a girl, what to do and what not to do, so that she feels right on the first date. But that doesn't mean you can't follow some simple tricks. If she gave you a chance to date, don't do something stupid that will cause her to block your number after the date. To prevent this from happening, follow these simple tricks, the rest is up to you.
Win the girl over, which gave you the opportunity to prove yourself on a first date, is not an easy task. If you're scared and you have stage fright, your conquest can turn into hell. However, it is positive stage fright can be better than overconfidence - sounds rather strange because we believed they were confidence men more desirable among women, a proved it is that they prefer men who are down to earth because they don't dare to say inappropriate sentences that earn them the first yellow card.
Be aware that it exists a whole science behind it, why a woman falls in love with you. Whether she will fall in love is not only influenced by your appearance or approach, but a combination of chemicals in her head and many ppsychological influences. So there are a lot of things you can't control. We will introduce you to those you can influence.
And which ones simple tricks you have to use to get her to do it fall in love with you on the first date? Remember that the simple tricks you're about to read won't work on all girls, so judge which ones might work.
Be approachable.
When you meet on a first date, be open and accessible. Accessibility does not mean that you brag and use inappropriate comments, but have active interaction, because she will like you more. Women don't like shy men who are quiet, rather must the conversation is constantly flowing. Also show her that you her opinion counts.
During the conversation, pay attention to every detail and stimulus - if you notice that she likes your approachability, go ahead, but don't overdo it, because you can be pushy. Be gentle, make her feel like a lady with you and feel that you are free and only interested in her.
Then be unavailable.
Once you showed her you were accessible and free especially for her, it's time to be you back off a little. It's time to start practicing the principle of scarcity, which says that the person must miss you. People value and want things that we don't have and that are difficult to keep or get.
Inaccessibility doesn't mean you are, of course harsh, rude and cold, but simply that you have to slow down the pace of the conversation. You had the reins in your hands, let her now have them. Let her start the conversation. Don't share compliments. Don't be sweet.
Look her in the eyes.
Scientists have found that they can rate we measure love, based on how long they look into each other's eyes. Couples who are in love are more than 75 % time looking into each other's eyes while talking. In normal communication, however, people look at the interlocutor from 40 to 60 %. This means that you can tell from her look how she is showing you.
If you will look into her eyes more than 75 % time, you will mess with her brain. They remember, who last looked at them for so long. It's about starting to relax then phenylethylamine respectively molecule of love. The more he relaxes, the stronger hers will be hearty beat, she will sweat more and feel butterflies in her stomach. The possibility of him falling in love is said to be greater.
All you have to do is to z you create a feeling of infatuation with long admiring glances.
Yours too pupils these can help him fall in love, she says science. You can't control them, but you can create an environment that will encourage them to expand. Larger pupils are supposed to make you more attractive.
You can achieve this by you limit the light – in a restaurant or bar (if you go there) sit down where it is a little light. It is ideal if you sit down at a table where a candle is lit. It is also important that you look at a part of your body that you like the most attractive. Well, keep that part ABOVE the neck.
What to do after a date?
When you break up, text her that you had a good time. That way, you'll show her that you do you don't count your date as just another one of them all. Write to her that you had a good time on the date and let her know when you would like to do it again. Don't write a long message that might 'choke' her.
More information:
psycnet.apa.org
books.google.si
