Every one of us has felt what it's like to have your heart broken at least once in our life. Although such feelings are bitter, the end result is sweeter than we can think at this moment.
The person we once knew becomes a stranger. We think about everything we invested in the relationship, preferably bpa and completely delete this part of life, all the memories and moments. This is usually the scenario of a painful and bad breakup that many of us have experienced.
Well, life goes on, and the feelings of sadness, self-pity, or hatred slowly fade, but eventually they disappear completely. We begin to live a new period in our lives, we have more experience, we are wiser, happier, and for all this we can let's thank our ex-partner.
Be GRATEFUL to the ex who hurt you:
#Hm grateful that you taught me that life goes on.
This does not only refer to a bad love story and pain, but also to any difficult moment in life, such as the loss of a loved one, illness, death...
It's hard at first and we feel empty and alone, but eventually we start to remember the things that made us perfect before we entered the relationship and this phase of life. Our friends are still here. Our family was always there. Our desires are still here… our better life is HERE!
#Thank you for showing me that I am strong.
Although heartbreak is an emotional pain, it is also felt physically. The stinging in the chest that makes it difficult to breathe is a familiar feeling that further reinforces the memories that are all around us - and they remind us of things that once fulfilled us, but now no longer exist.
Well, such a feeling of weakness and loss eventually disappears, and something stronger fills its place. It's about the strength that every woman has - and it finally comes to the surface after being hidden for a long time under layers of grief. Every negative moment in life that we overcome is a new experience. But experience makes us stronger and smarter.
#Hgrateful that you taught me to love stronger and better.
The worst feeling after a breakup is when you think you've lost the love of your life. The feeling tells us that we have allowed the "right one" to slip away from us and that we will never find such a person again.
This, too, is merely a transitional phase that causes fear of the unknown, fear of the future, which at this moment seems not to exist. After a certain time, life will begin to offer us new things, friendships, loves, which are of better quality than the ones for which we suffered so much.
"I don't know exactly what I WANT, but I know what I DON'T want", is a saying that shows that life always offers us better and bigger things - both in love and in other things.
