Wondering why this is happening to you? Stop wondering, do something about it. Get out of the vicious circle. Change your beliefs.
If you find yourself staying in an unsatisfying or even toxic romantic, friendship, or business relationship, and you're wondering why, you've come to the right place.
Let what is written serve you as a guide for the future.
1. You are not honest with yourself
You may be unresponsive to your needs and deny that there is anything wrong with your relationship or that you might want something else. You're not ready to embrace your true nature, so you settle for a relationship that's mediocre and unhappy at best.
2. You believe you can change the other person
You think you can change your partner and shape them to your liking. You don't look at your partner's shortcomings and his past, but you are focused on fantasy, on mental representations of what he should be like.
3. You don't feel good enough
You think you don't deserve happiness. You feel like no one understands you and you are alone in this world. Therefore, you think that you are not worthy of happiness, nor that you can leave the relationship.
4. You are not independent
You think you can't live without your partner. You feel like you'd just die if you stayed alone, and even if you're not happy with the relationship, you think it's better than being single.
5. You fear rejection
You think that no one will ever love you again, that you will be left alone and that the person you like will reject you. Fear the pain.
It is important to understand the causes and your patterns in relationships, as this will make it easier for you to deal with them and resolve them. When you do this, you will have the courage to leave any relationships that hurt you and make you feel bad.
If you don't know where to start and where your behavior is coming from, seek professional help to help you learn about yourself and create relationships that enhance you.
